hey,im 14 currently.ive been masterbating quiite sumtime since last year's october.how can i stop??!!im sick n tired of this masterbating thing.i tried to stop but after a week,i couldnt get hold of myself n started masterbating again.i hav a gf but we never hav sex before.its illegal to do it before marriage anyway.so,give me some tips!i fuckign hate masterbating n i wanna stop!!
Masterbating is as natural for young teenagers as it is for adults. There should be no guilt for or from doing it. Do not force your gf into sex, just to stop. Sex will lead to pregnancy. Sex before marriage is NOT illegal! Altough not all religions condone sex before marriage, IT IS NOT ILLEGAL. Masterbation is a form of self exploration, do not be embarrassed, EVERY ONE does it. (Even if they say they don't) You are the only one who knows what feels right and what does not. If you do not know what feels good for yourself, how will you know what feels good for your gf when you do have sex. How will you be able to tell her what you like and what you dont. Self masterbation is fun also, so do not be feel bad about it.
everybody does do it, yes. illegal before marriage, no ( but i dont reccomend it). find a new hobby, play poker, go to the mall, always be on the go. it takes power within, which i cannot help with
Listen, almost everyone does it and it is in our genes to get the urge to do so, but it can take the best of a person. The best way to stop is by cold turkey, just stop and set a record of days of not masterbating. Youm may do it again, but try to make the intervals longer. If you are religious, tie it in. Whether it's a sin or not, you don't want to do it. Make a goal for God and yourself. They may say masterbation is natural and all, but if it's making you feel this way, stop doing it. Masterbation only leads to more strong, kinda addictive urge. It changes people. There's much better pleasures in life. When you're older and are with a lady you want or are spending the rest if your life with, you'll see masterbtion really isn't worth it. Patience is usually always rewarded. You wait, and you'll feel better inside and not be a sex-addict.
there is a cream that you can rub on to your penis to nearly stop all erections. Wether they be mental, subconsious, you touching yourself or your gf trying to get on top of you, it just wont happen.
I personaly wouldent use the cream even if i had it
Although i do question wether or not this is a benificial thing (masterbating 2-5 times a day), physicaly i see no problems, but mentaly, i feel like i dont even need a women anymore and i know thats not right.
I personaly wouldent use the cream even if i had it
Although i do question wether or not this is a benificial thing (masterbating 2-5 times a day), physicaly i see no problems, but mentaly, i feel like i dont even need a women anymore and i know thats not right.
KEEP JERKING OFF MAN CAUSE IF YOU RUSH INTO SEX WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND YOU COULD GET HER PREGNANT AND YOU MIGHT NOT
WANNA HER THIS BUT IF SHE WAS AND I SAID IF SHE WAS TO GO
MESS AROUND WITH SOME OTHER DUDE AND WAS UNPROCTECTED
AND GOT HERPES HIV OR SOME sh*t LIKE THAT YOUR GONNA BE ANGRY WITH YOURSELF SO BELIVE ME MAN WHEN YOUR GONNA HAVE SEX DO IT WHEN YOU GET MARRIED DO TI WITH SOMONE THAT IS
SPECIAL TO YOUR HEART CAUSE WHEN YOU GIVE IT UP THERE AINT NO TURNING BACK FROM THAT sh*t TRUST ME BECAUSE I KNOW GUYS WHO SPEND THE REST OF THEIR LIVES SAYING WHY ME .
BESIDES BRO YOU TO YOUNG FOR THAT TALK ANYWAYS MAN BUT HEY THE CHOICE IS YOURS MAN HOPEFULLY YOU MAKE THE RIGHT ONE PEACE AND LOVE YOUR BOY WATSON
WANNA HER THIS BUT IF SHE WAS AND I SAID IF SHE WAS TO GO
MESS AROUND WITH SOME OTHER DUDE AND WAS UNPROCTECTED
AND GOT HERPES HIV OR SOME sh*t LIKE THAT YOUR GONNA BE ANGRY WITH YOURSELF SO BELIVE ME MAN WHEN YOUR GONNA HAVE SEX DO IT WHEN YOU GET MARRIED DO TI WITH SOMONE THAT IS
SPECIAL TO YOUR HEART CAUSE WHEN YOU GIVE IT UP THERE AINT NO TURNING BACK FROM THAT sh*t TRUST ME BECAUSE I KNOW GUYS WHO SPEND THE REST OF THEIR LIVES SAYING WHY ME .
BESIDES BRO YOU TO YOUNG FOR THAT TALK ANYWAYS MAN BUT HEY THE CHOICE IS YOURS MAN HOPEFULLY YOU MAKE THE RIGHT ONE PEACE AND LOVE YOUR BOY WATSON
thank you my friends you have lightend me up and are helping me demolish this problem i dony know ya but best wishez in da future
i am 14 and i whant ot stop masbating how
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where does it say dat...
just wondering
you guys probably think you know the answers but according to Gods word, your fools do you know that? Yes, fools.
Dont call me a name back because Im not calling you it, its a fact. God word says so, what God says goes!
where does it say dat...
just wondering
Im 16 now and i have been masterbating for quite a while and ive been trying to stop for 3 years now, its really affecting me socially and mentally. Ive developed a antisocial disorder and feel depressed all the time everytime i do it. Sure there are some times i try to stop but i just fail, the longest ive withheld was 3 weeks. I feel so horrible and guilty everytime i do it and its against my religon!! I really wanna stop but i just cant...I feel like if i dont stop, ill have ruined my whole life and will never be able to be normal again.. Please Help!
well i would suggest praying to god for help and try to think of methods to stop, this may sound weird but try to use pain as a option to stop like when ever you get a urge, try to punch yourself or somthing like that.
Hey same here man. Also I feel so ashamed to call myself a christian, go to church, and a few days later start going at it w/ myself like some animal. So to my question. Is tehre something taht can be done to just make u stop or are ppl like us for ever doomed form the first time that we start? Please help!!!
actually thers a legal limit for sex even with parental consent. two kids can be arrested for mutual consent rape.(even at the exact same age!)
i agree with the person who said "Lusting after a woman or man is a sin, and nobody masterbates without lustful thoughts in ones mind at the relevant time, so 'keep jerking' as most people said is the COMPLETE wrong answer."
we all have our opinions...some of us religous, and some arent...some of us follow the rules of God and some just dont mind. it is true that there is no exact saying in the bible that masterbating is a bad thing or a sin...BUT it is in the bible that LUSTING after a woman or a man is a sin...and YUP, nobody masterbates w/out lustful thoughts...how can anybdy do that, ryt?
i myself is having a really HARD time controlling and NOT masterbating at all...trust me, it is really HARD!!! but hey, im still NOT doing it till now...here's a very helpful advice i can give u if you want to stop masterbating...everytime i feel like masterbating, and thus thinking of lustful thoughts, i immediately PRAY to God and ask for the strength to help me...and i just keep on praying until my lustful thoughts go away...trust me, it will go away...how can it NOT go away while you are praying...you will unconsciously lose your urge.
doing the right thing is really hard...and i mean really hard...but the reward for doing it is also really great!!! =)
we all have our opinions...some of us religous, and some arent...some of us follow the rules of God and some just dont mind. it is true that there is no exact saying in the bible that masterbating is a bad thing or a sin...BUT it is in the bible that LUSTING after a woman or a man is a sin...and YUP, nobody masterbates w/out lustful thoughts...how can anybdy do that, ryt?
i myself is having a really HARD time controlling and NOT masterbating at all...trust me, it is really HARD!!! but hey, im still NOT doing it till now...here's a very helpful advice i can give u if you want to stop masterbating...everytime i feel like masterbating, and thus thinking of lustful thoughts, i immediately PRAY to God and ask for the strength to help me...and i just keep on praying until my lustful thoughts go away...trust me, it will go away...how can it NOT go away while you are praying...you will unconsciously lose your urge.
doing the right thing is really hard...and i mean really hard...but the reward for doing it is also really great!!! =)
There is a way to stop this quickly. All you need to do when your body feels like masterbating is think of something that has nothing to do with sex or the situation you are in. If you started thinking of something and then found out it has some little stuff to do with sex (bed, underwear, e.c.t.), quickly put your mind on something else. If you really feel like masterbating and there is nothing to do say the thing you are thinking about numerous times or even look at it. At times that you do not feel like masterbating try to find somethink to do at a time when you do feel like masterbating. Do not enter pornographical websites or watch porn online if you have done so before. Once your body is used to life with no masterbating don't restart masterbating because addiction can return quickly and I bet you did not enjoy suffering through this process. If the following process does not work then you might want to spend time doing what you really like to do during times when you want to masterbate. If that is too hard try and watch a Disney movie. Movies like that never turn anyone on. If that does not work that you c=are a very unlucky man. Try to watch BME Pain Olympics: Final Round in a case when all the above does not work. You will never want to masterbate again! Good luck to whoever tries this!