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I am 55 years old and I am not in a relationship at present. In fact I was in one in which I we were engaged but I think the lack of sex in the relationship was a huge factor in its endin . Id have to say to be honest that from the beginning there were several time we had sex both case ended with my woman being very satisfied and me only in the knowing that she was. Also in both cases I had not gotten an erection. I pleased her orally,which was common to do that first then normal intercourse would occur. These times it didnt leaving me frustrated to say the least. Two years and no sex and I mean no sex later she left. I freely admitted what was going on during this time and sought help to no avail. Please any help would be appreciated. I dont think Im ready for pasture or the slaughthouse yet . Do you
It's scarry for me to hear a gentlemen of your age admitting that a relationship ends just because of lack of sex. Somebody please tell that to my wife.
I'm 25 and she is 30, we have been married for almost two months. I have a high sex drive and she, the opposite. To make matters worse, sometimes she suffers from UTI that can last 3weeks and or even more.
We go for weeks, sometimes months without makinh love. What advice can you give me... Somebody...? Anybody!
I'm 25 and she is 30, we have been married for almost two months. I have a high sex drive and she, the opposite. To make matters worse, sometimes she suffers from UTI that can last 3weeks and or even more.
We go for weeks, sometimes months without makinh love. What advice can you give me... Somebody...? Anybody!
I am a female and I had a thyroid problem that was reducing my libido. I was always interested in sex until that point and since treatment have been revived. If this is not the case then sometimes it is the woman not feeling secure (mental issues) or appreciated (man not satisfying emotional needs). But if it is not any of these things then you need to explain that this is a selfish act and that if her needs always come before your own then that is no relationship. Women get so busy thinking about their needs that they don't realize their man has them too. He just doesn't voice them as much.
REASONS FOR LOW LIBIDO IN WOMEN
1. Stress
is the number one cause of low libido in women. Women unlike men have a lot of added responsibilities on their shoulders. They not only have to keep her office work updated but also have to look after her home, children and her husband which puts a lot of burden both mentally and physically on her. All these responsibilities take a toll on her body and make her stressed out which results in no energy left for fulfilling her sexual desires. This can also cause a rift in a relationship.
2. Depression is also a major reason for loss of sexual desire. When a person is depressed he generally looses interest in most of things, there is loss of appetite as a result of which weakness creeps into the body and there is no energy and desire left for sexual pleasure.
3. Lack of sleep
can also result in loss of libido. When a woman does not get enough sleep she is bound to feel tired all today which will result in problems both at work and in the bed.
4. Addictions to substances like alcohol, cigarettes and other harmful substances is also responsible for low libido problem.
5. If a women is not emotionally connected to her partner or her partner is not the one she desires to have sex with she will just go through the motions and gradually she might loose interest in sex altogether.
So these were some of the main reasons why women suffer from low libido problem.
1. Stress
is the number one cause of low libido in women. Women unlike men have a lot of added responsibilities on their shoulders. They not only have to keep her office work updated but also have to look after her home, children and her husband which puts a lot of burden both mentally and physically on her. All these responsibilities take a toll on her body and make her stressed out which results in no energy left for fulfilling her sexual desires. This can also cause a rift in a relationship.
2. Depression is also a major reason for loss of sexual desire. When a person is depressed he generally looses interest in most of things, there is loss of appetite as a result of which weakness creeps into the body and there is no energy and desire left for sexual pleasure.
3. Lack of sleep
can also result in loss of libido. When a woman does not get enough sleep she is bound to feel tired all today which will result in problems both at work and in the bed.
4. Addictions to substances like alcohol, cigarettes and other harmful substances is also responsible for low libido problem.
5. If a women is not emotionally connected to her partner or her partner is not the one she desires to have sex with she will just go through the motions and gradually she might loose interest in sex altogether.
So these were some of the main reasons why women suffer from low libido problem.
my husband and i dont have any sex any more, i have tried however, he totally rejects me. i feel like i horrible and rejected all the time. he states that i the one with the problem. of course that just makes me more undisired. i need some affection if its not sexual. should i call it quits. this has gone on to long and i dont feel like continuing to be battered like this anymore.
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irisrose
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irisrose
All of you need to get a hormone pannel done. There is a nose spray that increases desire. You need to consult a endrocronogist. There are more things you may not be aware of than the list above. Also diet. I been suffering for 20 years. I am still looking for solutions. Thank God I have someone who understands that it is beyond my control. It is a health issue. Have hope the answer is out there. Good luck to you all.