Dear Linndy
No need to be embarrassed. You are not unique. Many girls masturbate. But think about your activity, and try and understand yourself first. There seems to be more on your mind than just what is expressed in your post.
"Now I just can not get rid of it"
- What exactly do you want to get rid of?
- Why do you want to get rid of it?
"I sometimes do that like four times a day"
- So what is it that leads you to doing it?
- Where do you do it, and how?
"I have this problem I guess since my preschool years"
- Which aspect do you see as a problem? Many pre-school girls masturbate.
- How old are you now?
"Maybe it is cos I am still a virgin"I would hardly think so. Many non-virgins masturbate. Value your virginity.
"I suppose I am virgin also because no one is actually attractive for me because I do not need anyone for sex"Sex is not the only reason for relationships. Many girls have boyfriends without sex, leaving that aspect until they have found their life-partner. Many are still virgins until they marry.
If you would like to go into a bit more detail responding to my comments, then maybe more help can be offered.
Hope this helps as a start.
Loading...
Loading...
Sometimes men do lose sensitivity in their, which may be the case here; try using a good penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil); make sure it includes acetyl L carnitine, an ingredient which is neuroprotectvie and can help with penis sensitivity issues. Good luck!
Loading...
I'm a woman dating an older man... 50ish. He never married & didn't experience much sexual contact with women. He seems to want a relationship but can't sexually preform. He doesn't have an orgasm when we are intimate. He masturbates when we aren't together & that seems to subdue any desire for me. Is there hope for normalcy? I know he relied on pornography to satisfy what he lacked in relationship for many years because of a social disorder. Can you give me some understanding at what I don't understand about addiction to porn & masturbation? It makes me feel...like I'm not enough.
Thanks,
Inthemaze
Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
Masturbation is a perfectly natural thing make and females have been doing for thousands of years not only does it give sexual pleasure and relief it is also good at helping to relieve stress too. There is nothing wrong with masturbating every day and if anything it will give you more power to last longer during sexual intercourse what the problem is when you get hooked on masturbating to porn as that can have effects on sexual arousal and lead to problems with getting aroused and even being able to maintain staying lubricated in females and maintain an erection in men so the best answer is to stay away from porn when you masturbate.
Loading...
I had an ex who was desensitized from the addiction to orgasm many years before we were together. His sensitivity never came back and the only way he could finish is if he pushed hard and fast for a long time during sex and to guys like this there is no such thing as a quicky lol.
Only advise i can give you is what your already trying to do and thats to not masterbate in anyway for awhile before you engage and any sexual behaviour with a woman and hope your girl can handle a good banging :)
Loading...
Loading...