I am a 21 year old girl and I have had problems with this before. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years and here recently I have been having pain during intercourse. Its deep pain like cramps or something. After words it hurts so bad it makes me cry and and feel sick to my stomach. I have been on the depo shot for about a year and I dont know whats wrong. It only happens now and a again. Please some one help me, do I need to go to the doctor?
I have the same problem with my husband. I never had this problem before him. From patterns, I've noticed that it is the worse right before my period as though the lining getting thicker causes less space and the fact that he is very large seems to not leave much room for error, so to speak. I have less problems at other times of the month. Have you noticed a pattern? Like sometimes in the begginning of the month it might hurt but it's not nearly as bad as the week before my period or it might not hurt at all. The week before my mense I get almost sick to my stomach and feel as though I'm going to throw up. It also seems to be the worst from me being on top, which I love to be on top. But it seems that the constant grinding seems to really push my uterus up more than it should be. IMHO, I think it's due to him being quite large and he's extending my uterus up higher than it's used to and afterwards it seems to be relaxing and coming down causing pain. I don't know, I didn't ask my gyno last time I went. I do know though that my uterus points backwards, towards my spine, which is unusual. How about you? Is he overly large? Does it come on slowly? For me we'll finish and I'll lay there fine and it slowly gets more painful over about 5 minutes until I just can't lay there anymore but standing doesn't help and laying doesn't help. I just have to wait that 15 minutes or so for it to pass. You?
well i dont pay to much attention to any patterns, I dont have periods anymore since i have been on the shot for so long so maybe that could be a cause. I love being on top as well, but as soon as I climax the pain starts coming and then I let him get on top and it still hurts, i have to tell him not to go so deep and when hes done I just lay thier in pain and it gets worse and in about 5 minutes its gone, its horriable, it almost feels like contractions or something ( i have never had a child so not sure) but it makes me feel sick. I was looking around on the internet yesterday and found something that said it could be uterus contractions or an allergic reaction to sperm %-) He's a well endowed gentle man and knows how to work it, so I think you might be right, hitting the uterus to many times maybe. Good to know someone else in the worls feels the pain :-)
yes u need to go to the doctor... samething happened to me and they said it was beacuse some women have very sensitive walls... they told me to not have sex for bout 1-2 weeks... and to use alot of lube... it helped alot... but he also has to be gentle at least while going in and then coming out..... hope i helped.... good luck.... daisy
This weekend it happened again once, when I was on top, and didn't happen when I wasn't on top. I really do think it has something to do with that. I recently started doubling up my BC so I only have my mense every other month or every 3 months (depending on what I have to do the week I get my mense) and so I'm at the point right now where if I stop taking my BC I'll have my mense. I definatly think it has to do with how deep he went when I was on top. The fortunate thing for me is that my husband can get to orgasm when I'm on top so we usually just go at the same time. So I don't know if it would come on during sex like it does for you but it definatly comes whether or not I orgasm because I didn't the time I was on top. Go figure.
Yea, I really dont know anymore, I have been looking on the internet and they have all kinds of medical problems that could be causing it, like a cyst or something, but here latelly I have been having pains just whenever, lately they have been in my lower back, one night it was my right side the other night it was the left side, it felt like someone was stabbing me :'( then the next day in my left lower pelvic region it felt like that to, kinda like a cramp, but just on one side. I think I may be stressed. I really dont think that any of this is a big deal, just something alittle misfortinate.
Sounds like an ovarian cyst to me. Not serious tho. Go to your gyn.
I have the same problems i have follicular cysts