I've been having ED on and off since the summer. I don't have a girlfriend - I'm having problems simply masturbating. I am now completely unable to masturbate without porn, and even when I am using porn my erection sometimes dies.
I still get turned on really easily, and I now often become scared whenever this happens (for fear of it getting even worse if I botch the masturbation session). I still stay hard around 75% of the time as long as I've got porn, but sometimes my sex drive plummets once I've started masturbating and I loose feeling in my penis.
I'm sure that it is just psychological, since I still wake up with morning erections and still sometimes get really hard erections when I've just come out of the toilet. I told my parents (since there wasn't anyone else) ages ago, but they just take the view that this is something I have to get over on my own. I would personally like to see a psychiatrist/psychologist (don't know which is the right word...), but I wouldn't be able to get an appointment without my parents knowing.
And if I can't get this issue fixed, is there anything I could get perscribed from a GP that would simply kill my sex drive? That way, I just wouldn't have care about ED anymore :$.
Thanks.
I still get turned on really easily, and I now often become scared whenever this happens (for fear of it getting even worse if I botch the masturbation session). I still stay hard around 75% of the time as long as I've got porn, but sometimes my sex drive plummets once I've started masturbating and I loose feeling in my penis.
I'm sure that it is just psychological, since I still wake up with morning erections and still sometimes get really hard erections when I've just come out of the toilet. I told my parents (since there wasn't anyone else) ages ago, but they just take the view that this is something I have to get over on my own. I would personally like to see a psychiatrist/psychologist (don't know which is the right word...), but I wouldn't be able to get an appointment without my parents knowing.
And if I can't get this issue fixed, is there anything I could get perscribed from a GP that would simply kill my sex drive? That way, I just wouldn't have care about ED anymore :$.
Thanks.
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I agree its a psychological problem - the more you worry about it the worse it becomes. It's difficult to tell you not to worry - but it should sort itself out. You may consider seeing a sex councilor. The fact that you wake up with erections and can still become easily aroused prove there is nothing wrong with your body. Don't see masturbation as a chore - but a pleasure. Enjoy it, and don't feel that you have to wank to get better. Lie in bed and stroke your penis - it doesn't matter if you get an erection - just enjoy the feeling. You don't have to ejaculate every time you get a hard-on. Good luck. John
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