hey mary, first off how old is your friend and is he circumcised. sometimes if his foreskin is tight it can cause pain since it can sometimes result in consticting the urethra. also does he have pain while he urinates? finally how long dies this pain last? he also mentioned his penis isnt hard im not sure what he means by that. is it not hard when he ejaculates or afterwards?
thank :cool:
Two things occur to me.
If his PENIS hurts when he ejaculates, or immediately afterwards, then perhaps someone is being too rough, or perhaps he has some form of irritation that is being ignored during the pleasure of sex, but comes immediately to mind once he stops and the penis deflates. Is this what he means by his penis isn't hard?
Second, why isn't HE writing us instead of you? Who is it that has the problem with this, him or you?
It occurs to me that he may be putting off sex with you under the excuse that it will cause him pain (maybe it will!), when he really doesn't want to. I'm really going out on a limb here. We'd need a lot more information, and it would be easier if it came straight from him. But if you post, that'll work too.