every time i have sex wid my bf,i feel very nervous and not able to keep myself calm and steady in a position.when his penis enter in my vagina,i feel a lot of pain and vagina becmes very sore.i never enjoy myself having sex and he is never happy wid me.plz sugest me smthng so that i cn enjoy sex without pain
Hi Katie, when you start to have intercourse with your bf are you turned on and wet enough and does your bf give you enough for play before if tries to enter you?
yes i m wet and turnd on bt whn i realize that he is gng to insert his penis,i become nervous and no more turnd on.he gives me enough foreplay.actualy he has a thick penis and when i feel it near my vagina i becme vry scared.plz help me out
I think it is just the fact that youthful its going to hurt so you tense up your vagina muscles tighten and that's what is causing the pain.
Try to stay relaxed and not think about it and also try some extra lubricant on your bfs penis before you start.
Have you suffered any sort of traumatic sexual experience in the past?
Try to stay relaxed and not think about it and also try some extra lubricant on your bfs penis before you start.
Have you suffered any sort of traumatic sexual experience in the past?
yes,i had heavy bleedng whn i lost my virginity and since thn i m afraid to do it again.i tried coconut oil as a lubricant this time.
Hi katie, I would say just try to relax and use a proper water base lubricant :-)
thanks u for d suggestion.hope it works
Hi Katie, your welcome and I hope you can get things sorted out, do you get any symptoms of any sort as I have been researching and some infection could cause it.
Does it hurt when he fingers you or is it just when his penis enters you or all the time he is inside you?
Does it hurt when he fingers you or is it just when his penis enters you or all the time he is inside you?
it doesnt hurt bt for few minutes my vagina becomes sore.