Hi there!
I have a problem with my boyfriend.We have known each other for about 4 years.During this period, i have always known that he had strong feelings for me but i didn't care about him so we were just friends.Meanwhile he has had other stories without any emotional importance, the last finished 5 months ago. Now we are together(about a month) and we are trying to have sex but he has fast ejaculations.As far as i know, his sexual life has been normal till now, while this would be my first experience.I know that he loves me and he feels terrible after each time(3we tried 3 times so far)Can you give me any advice?
Thanks
I have a problem with my boyfriend.We have known each other for about 4 years.During this period, i have always known that he had strong feelings for me but i didn't care about him so we were just friends.Meanwhile he has had other stories without any emotional importance, the last finished 5 months ago. Now we are together(about a month) and we are trying to have sex but he has fast ejaculations.As far as i know, his sexual life has been normal till now, while this would be my first experience.I know that he loves me and he feels terrible after each time(3we tried 3 times so far)Can you give me any advice?
Thanks
I have this problem myself, and sometimes is frustrating for me my wife.
What I try and usually works, is not to go too fast.
Try long kisses, oral sex (or just touch each other) and on the penetration, try to be relaxed, you may tighten your vagina too much. No rush.
Many men, have this! A friend of mine says he usually take 20-30 minutes to ejaculate (i'm so jealous), but after he just took 5 minutes to ejaculate again.
Maybe, when you guys known you love each other, the things just came too fast.
relax! Tell him when is near to ejaculate, take it out, and play around, when the hurry pass put it back.
What I try and usually works, is not to go too fast.
Try long kisses, oral sex (or just touch each other) and on the penetration, try to be relaxed, you may tighten your vagina too much. No rush.
Many men, have this! A friend of mine says he usually take 20-30 minutes to ejaculate (i'm so jealous), but after he just took 5 minutes to ejaculate again.
Maybe, when you guys known you love each other, the things just came too fast.
relax! Tell him when is near to ejaculate, take it out, and play around, when the hurry pass put it back.
Early ejaculation is something normal in the debut of any sexual relation. It occurs because of emotion or fear that will not perform well. Too much arousal or genital stimulation may be also the cause. Help your bfriend to be relaxed and do it very gently. Be relaxed too and tell him that it was much better than previous time. If he had normal sex before, then could be just a temporary problem.