Hello there everyone. I was wondering if anyone could help me out with my situation.
You see, my girlfriend doesn't masterbate really, and when she does, she just uses clitorial stimulation. She doesn't like to put her fingers in her vagina because she says it feels weird and kind of hurts (*I also think she thinks it might impregnate her - she is worried a lot of things we do might impregnate her but I assure her only vaginal intercourse is the only thing that's going to have a chance to do that*). As a result, she really doesn't let me finger her either (and I let her B and don't argue about it). She also doesn't use tampons on her period. Which all of this worries me because when it comes time that we are both ready for sexual intercourse in our relationship, it will be really painful and unpleasant.
The problem is she has to be really turned on for her clitorial stimulation to work (hers is apparently not that sensative). But I wonder if her G spot is sensative (if she has one - I've read somewhere that not all females have G spots).
I think I could talk her into letting me finger her if I had some outside advice. If I could reach her G spot to stimulate her, she might like it and change her mind. Any personal experiences or advice anyone, particularly females, can give me with her delima?
I ask about this because I would like to be able to stimulate her instead of it just being one sided where I'm the one recieving stimulation all the time.
I would much rather masterbate with her than have sex. We are not quite ready for sex yet (we are both still virgins) in our relationship.
You see, my girlfriend doesn't masterbate really, and when she does, she just uses clitorial stimulation. She doesn't like to put her fingers in her vagina because she says it feels weird and kind of hurts (*I also think she thinks it might impregnate her - she is worried a lot of things we do might impregnate her but I assure her only vaginal intercourse is the only thing that's going to have a chance to do that*). As a result, she really doesn't let me finger her either (and I let her B and don't argue about it). She also doesn't use tampons on her period. Which all of this worries me because when it comes time that we are both ready for sexual intercourse in our relationship, it will be really painful and unpleasant.
The problem is she has to be really turned on for her clitorial stimulation to work (hers is apparently not that sensative). But I wonder if her G spot is sensative (if she has one - I've read somewhere that not all females have G spots).
I think I could talk her into letting me finger her if I had some outside advice. If I could reach her G spot to stimulate her, she might like it and change her mind. Any personal experiences or advice anyone, particularly females, can give me with her delima?
I ask about this because I would like to be able to stimulate her instead of it just being one sided where I'm the one recieving stimulation all the time.
I would much rather masterbate with her than have sex. We are not quite ready for sex yet (we are both still virgins) in our relationship.
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Hey,
After reading your post a few thoughts pop into my mind. First of i think it is great that you two can openly talk about your sexualy relation. Secondly the problem you are facing is very common.
Some girls are very cautious of inserting objects into them selves. As i assume she is a virgin like you said she has not had any expernice of insertstion into her vagina. It is all new to her and the feelings she is getting at the minute are very strange!
From what i have heard it does not sound like it is a health problem, more of an emmotianl issue that you need to get around,
Hope this has helped, feel free to ask anymore questions
Thanks
Nick
After reading your post a few thoughts pop into my mind. First of i think it is great that you two can openly talk about your sexualy relation. Secondly the problem you are facing is very common.
Some girls are very cautious of inserting objects into them selves. As i assume she is a virgin like you said she has not had any expernice of insertstion into her vagina. It is all new to her and the feelings she is getting at the minute are very strange!
From what i have heard it does not sound like it is a health problem, more of an emmotianl issue that you need to get around,
Hope this has helped, feel free to ask anymore questions
Thanks
Nick
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