Hi,
I have a "natural penis" and I had sex recently for the first time without a condom (with a girl I know who is clean and safe like me). She also was, for lack of a better term, giving me a ha****b and being pretty rough. I had to let her know it was hurting and she slowed down. After we were done, I went home and noticed that the tip of my foreskin was very swollen and a little warmer than usual.
I never did the stretch the penis thing as a kid (wasn't told). I started when I was around 16 (I'm 20 now) but was I too late? What exactly is this?
Also, she hadn't had sex in a year, which meant she was tighter and I remember there being a little bit of bleeding from her after we were finished. Could that have any effect on this? I've had it in an ice pack for a couple hours and I see it going down a little bit....but still curious about what this is.
Edit: Could a moderator delete my first post? Sorry for the double post.
I have a "natural penis" and I had sex recently for the first time without a condom (with a girl I know who is clean and safe like me). She also was, for lack of a better term, giving me a ha****b and being pretty rough. I had to let her know it was hurting and she slowed down. After we were done, I went home and noticed that the tip of my foreskin was very swollen and a little warmer than usual.
I never did the stretch the penis thing as a kid (wasn't told). I started when I was around 16 (I'm 20 now) but was I too late? What exactly is this?
Also, she hadn't had sex in a year, which meant she was tighter and I remember there being a little bit of bleeding from her after we were finished. Could that have any effect on this? I've had it in an ice pack for a couple hours and I see it going down a little bit....but still curious about what this is.
Edit: Could a moderator delete my first post? Sorry for the double post.
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hey guys,
just trying to relate..
because I have a similair problem. Last time I wanted to have sex, I couldn't enter my girlfriend properly, 'cause my foreskin went al back behind the head. After that I spent 5 minutes getting it back in the right shape again.
Are we talking 'bout the same problem here ? I realy like to know, kinda troubled by it actually.
Thx
bram
just trying to relate..
because I have a similair problem. Last time I wanted to have sex, I couldn't enter my girlfriend properly, 'cause my foreskin went al back behind the head. After that I spent 5 minutes getting it back in the right shape again.
Are we talking 'bout the same problem here ? I realy like to know, kinda troubled by it actually.
Thx
bram
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i had sex with my girl and i got a small cut on my foreskin is that bad it started bleeding although no tmuch but it hurts alot if she touches it like if she strectches it it hurts really bad and alittle bit of my foreskin was cut off is that really bad or will it heal?
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hey guys,
definitely seemed to have had the same problem as nearly all of you!! have faced the fact that i probably need to get a circumcision, and although massively put off by it, i'm trying to see the light at the end of the tunnel as such!
up till now have got by with having sex with condom and no problems, but sex without is incredibly painful since my foreskin will not retract over the head of the penis comfortably, it effectively hurts like hell and gets stuck.
have an appointment with the Urologist tomorrow, so will try to keep you informed with whats happening with it!
and for all those who go on about being concerned and terrified about the whole situation, don't worry, i've definately been in the same boat for 4years!!
turns out my dad had to be circumcised...and my GP said it can be a family thing, so check out to see if your dad needed it done!
hope this helps, will keep you informed with progress!
definitely seemed to have had the same problem as nearly all of you!! have faced the fact that i probably need to get a circumcision, and although massively put off by it, i'm trying to see the light at the end of the tunnel as such!
up till now have got by with having sex with condom and no problems, but sex without is incredibly painful since my foreskin will not retract over the head of the penis comfortably, it effectively hurts like hell and gets stuck.
have an appointment with the Urologist tomorrow, so will try to keep you informed with whats happening with it!
and for all those who go on about being concerned and terrified about the whole situation, don't worry, i've definately been in the same boat for 4years!!
turns out my dad had to be circumcised...and my GP said it can be a family thing, so check out to see if your dad needed it done!
hope this helps, will keep you informed with progress!
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ok
i am a 15 year old boy nearly 16
and i am about to become sexualy active,
however, i am worrying as i cannot pull back my foreskin.
i have tried a fair number of times but to no success,
i remember when i was a small child i did it once
but i was scared so i put it back over and ever since then, i have been unable to pull it back.
now, i am aware that if you cannot pull back your foreskin then you cannot properly wash it, and so possibly leading to cancer of the penile, which i am very very worried about.
also, my penis is quite undersize and i am not sure wether these two issues are realted or not and if so then i am even more worried, i masturbate often and have no problems doing so, however, it does worry me...
please get back to me as soon as possible
thankyou
i am a 15 year old boy nearly 16
and i am about to become sexualy active,
however, i am worrying as i cannot pull back my foreskin.
i have tried a fair number of times but to no success,
i remember when i was a small child i did it once
but i was scared so i put it back over and ever since then, i have been unable to pull it back.
now, i am aware that if you cannot pull back your foreskin then you cannot properly wash it, and so possibly leading to cancer of the penile, which i am very very worried about.
also, my penis is quite undersize and i am not sure wether these two issues are realted or not and if so then i am even more worried, i masturbate often and have no problems doing so, however, it does worry me...
please get back to me as soon as possible
thankyou
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The problem you describe is paraphimosis. First, squeeze the penis head to force as much blood to flow out of it as possible, and get it to collapse, as you pull the stuck (retracted) foreskin forward over the rim of the head and to the tip. This should solve the immediate problem.
Next, get to work fixing the unacceptably tight foreskin, particularly the phimotic ring at the tip. This will require soaking in very warm or hot water, application of a corticosteroid cream such as Betamethasone 1% to the outside of the foreskin and then stretching the opening wider. This will require repeated attention for some time before results are achieved. Results can be permanent, but often are not, and the procedure can become a lifelong drudgery. Consider circumcision!
Next, get to work fixing the unacceptably tight foreskin, particularly the phimotic ring at the tip. This will require soaking in very warm or hot water, application of a corticosteroid cream such as Betamethasone 1% to the outside of the foreskin and then stretching the opening wider. This will require repeated attention for some time before results are achieved. Results can be permanent, but often are not, and the procedure can become a lifelong drudgery. Consider circumcision!
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The only reason an uncircumcised penis would be unclean is if the owner doesnt clean them selves. Its their hygeine not their wanker.
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Hello everyone. I'm currently 16 year old and uncircumsized. I looked at some of the answers and one in particular talked about how the problem of hypersensitivity can be resolved in early childhood. I was wondering if I can still stretch my foreskin so that i don't face the problem with the foreskin being stuck behind the head. My girlfriend and I really want to have sex and I got so scared after reading some of these posts here. If I can still do something about it (stretch my foreskin), please tell me. I also wonder if the problem with the foreskin getting stuck behind the head is very common (does this happen almost every time that a guy has sex or is it an unusual case). Thank you for your time.
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Hello everyone. I'm currently 16 year old and uncircumsized. I looked at some of the answers and one in particular talked about how the problem of hypersensitivity can be resolved in early childhood. I was wondering if I can still stretch my foreskin so that i don't face the problem with the foreskin being stuck behind the head. My girlfriend and I really want to have sex and I got so scared after reading some of these posts here. If I can still do something about it (stretch my foreskin to avoid circumsision or , please tell me. I also wonder if the problem with the foreskin going back too mich is very common (does this happen almost every time that a guy has sex or is it an unusual case). Thank you for your time.
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So Ive been with my bf for 3 years now and he's not circumsized. With in the past year give or take a little he doesn't have the urge for sex because he gets frustrated that the foreskin pulls back over the head and then he has to pull out and then re-enter and he looses his interest because he's embarrassed STILL to this day. Any thoughts? Anyway to prevent this? Ive talk to him about getting circumsized and hes starting to come around and talk about it now but can anyone give me any pointers that i can pass along?
Thanks!?
Thanks!?
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First of all, DOES your foreskin get stuck behind your head? I don't see where you said it does.
Don't get scared by what you read on forums like this. People only write about PROBLEMS. The majority of guys, who don't have a problem with their foreskin or other problems, DON'T post stories about it.
Can you pull your foreskin back behind the head when you have an erection without it hurting because it's tight? If you can, you have nothing to worry about. Mine was tight and I stretched it. It never really got stuck behind the head. All I had to do was wait for it to go soft and it rolled back over all by itself. i could force it by squeezing the head and pushing it under the foreskin but I didn't like to because the head was so sensitive.
If you want to stretch it, you can do that any time. It's only skin and skin will stretch, ask any woman who has been pregnant and has stretch marks on her belly.
Are you asking how to desensitize your head? I desensitized mine when I was in my 30s because I was tired of it being so sensitive.
Don't get scared by what you read on forums like this. People only write about PROBLEMS. The majority of guys, who don't have a problem with their foreskin or other problems, DON'T post stories about it.
Can you pull your foreskin back behind the head when you have an erection without it hurting because it's tight? If you can, you have nothing to worry about. Mine was tight and I stretched it. It never really got stuck behind the head. All I had to do was wait for it to go soft and it rolled back over all by itself. i could force it by squeezing the head and pushing it under the foreskin but I didn't like to because the head was so sensitive.
If you want to stretch it, you can do that any time. It's only skin and skin will stretch, ask any woman who has been pregnant and has stretch marks on her belly.
Are you asking how to desensitize your head? I desensitized mine when I was in my 30s because I was tired of it being so sensitive.
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Why does he feel he has to pull out to relocate his foreskin?
The normal functioning of a foreskin is to roll back and forth inside the vagina with the glans going in and out of it. It's purpose is to protect your vagina walls from too much friction with the penis. But if it gets stuck behind the head it would be no different than a circumcised penis.
Is it so tight that it hurts him when it gets stuck behind the head? If so it can be stretched. I stretched mine.
You say he has to pull out and reenter so it isn't clear to me that it gets stuck behind the head.
There's nothing to be embarrassed about, all penises are different and his is his. There are only two people who need to like it anyway, you and him. So as long as you don't mind, why should he?
I would never say he should get circumcised. I love my foreskin, I can't imagine life without it and neither can my wife. I tried pulling it back for sex so I could see what it would feel like if I was circumcised. She was NOT pleased. She preferred the foreskin rolling inside her.
The foreskin also has some extra pleasure for me. The inner side of the foreskin is stretch sensitive and adds to MY pleasure during sex. That can be preserved with a "high and tight" circumcision but you have to find a doctor who will do it that way.
The normal functioning of a foreskin is to roll back and forth inside the vagina with the glans going in and out of it. It's purpose is to protect your vagina walls from too much friction with the penis. But if it gets stuck behind the head it would be no different than a circumcised penis.
Is it so tight that it hurts him when it gets stuck behind the head? If so it can be stretched. I stretched mine.
You say he has to pull out and reenter so it isn't clear to me that it gets stuck behind the head.
There's nothing to be embarrassed about, all penises are different and his is his. There are only two people who need to like it anyway, you and him. So as long as you don't mind, why should he?
I would never say he should get circumcised. I love my foreskin, I can't imagine life without it and neither can my wife. I tried pulling it back for sex so I could see what it would feel like if I was circumcised. She was NOT pleased. She preferred the foreskin rolling inside her.
The foreskin also has some extra pleasure for me. The inner side of the foreskin is stretch sensitive and adds to MY pleasure during sex. That can be preserved with a "high and tight" circumcision but you have to find a doctor who will do it that way.
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