can anyone help me I'm a 14 almost 15 year old that can't get an orgasim...do u guys have any tips or suggestion and I can't get any sex toys because my parents don't even know that I'm doing this
Hi Selenabell, when you masturbate when do you normally do it and how do you normally do it?
I usually do it at night and put my radio on, that way no one can hear me...and I try doing some of the things that my friends have suggested I should do like humping a pillow or use the end of a hair brush and etc.
it could be a simple fact that you haven't found the right spot and just how to stimulate it right yet or it could be that your subconsciously scared that someone night hear you so your body holds back.
Very rarely will you achieve orgasm with just internal stimulation alone it normally needs to have clitoral stimulation as well.
Your be better off to try just clitoral stimulation either at softly rubbing up an down or side to side or in circles what ever feels best for you but make sure you keep it lubricated or your get sore, start of slow and slowly speed up.
See how you get on with that :-)
Thank you :) that has been sort of helping me these past couple of weeks...and plus I'm going to be home alone for a week do you have any tips on what should I try next?
The one before that was me..I didnt realize that I wasn't signed in..oh well :D
Don't just use your clit for stimulation there is also your nipples and the areola (dark area around them) that can feel good to touch when your turned on and also around your vagina entrance. Its really just a case of experimenting what feels good and most times it feels even better with a light touch and lubricated finger. :-)
Use your mind and create a fantasy. Masterbate your whole body and mind.