i think i have a problem...during my 1st few intercourse, i really didnt bleed my bf was even thinking that i am not virgin but honestly i am..its just that i didnt bleed
and now....everytime we have sex, i run out of lubricant...i know my bf is not happy, so am i since i get hurt..
what is the problem with me?
and now....everytime we have sex, i run out of lubricant...i know my bf is not happy, so am i since i get hurt..
what is the problem with me?
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Hi:
Don't blame yourself. That's a bad habit to start. You don't have to have sex with him. That's your choice. If it's not pleasurable to you, you should stop doing it. You have a right to say no. I would also go out on a limb here and say that if he is not able to please you unless there is lubricant, perhaps he really isn't the one for you. Sex, in a mature relationship, is a mutually pleasurable experience. This means that it is not for the benefit of one person. A man who cares about you will be interested in pleasing you and would not continue to move forward if you are in pain. Think about these things and ask yourself if this is right for you right now. I would really like to hear your thoughts on this.
Don't blame yourself. That's a bad habit to start. You don't have to have sex with him. That's your choice. If it's not pleasurable to you, you should stop doing it. You have a right to say no. I would also go out on a limb here and say that if he is not able to please you unless there is lubricant, perhaps he really isn't the one for you. Sex, in a mature relationship, is a mutually pleasurable experience. This means that it is not for the benefit of one person. A man who cares about you will be interested in pleasing you and would not continue to move forward if you are in pain. Think about these things and ask yourself if this is right for you right now. I would really like to hear your thoughts on this.
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I have to agree with dsdesk sex is "mutually pleasurable experience". And if you do not feel comfortable with having sex with your boyfriend, then don't.
He needs to be reasonable and need to care for you. This is not just your problem, he has to be involved also. Have you tried any lubricants?
He needs to be reasonable and need to care for you. This is not just your problem, he has to be involved also. Have you tried any lubricants?
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