Hello my name is Ashleigh Rundenza and I am needing advice. I lost my first child to the state rights and all November 2011 my husband now is not my first childs father but I'm ready to try and get over losing my first by having another with my husband now but he says its not the right time because of financial situations or where we live or what the politicians are saying all seems like excuses to me plz help I really need adice on how to handle the topic on kids with my husband
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Hi Ashleigh,
I agree with your husband, it is not the "right" time.
He has valid concerns that need to be addressed before you have another child. What's to prevent the state from taking this child too?
Hope it helps.
I agree with your husband, it is not the "right" time.
He has valid concerns that need to be addressed before you have another child. What's to prevent the state from taking this child too?
Hope it helps.
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better stability then I had with my son he is almost 3 and I dont wanna wait till he is 5 to continue my family thx for the advice
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When do they "re-evaluate" your situation?
I doubt he is better off under the state. Unfortunately, it seems like government "always knows best" nowadays.
I doubt he is better off under the state. Unfortunately, it seems like government "always knows best" nowadays.
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there is no re evaluation when i signed my right it was done i fought for a year and a half and lost cause the state wasnt working with me. i dont think he is either but theres nothing i can do it just hurts cause he is my first. and yea they do think they know everything and thx I wanna learn from my mistakes and the only way i can is to have another one but thats just me
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Sorry you and your husband aren't on the same page as far as having more children. From my time at Focus on the Family and speaking with other wives in your shoes, I know that can be very discouraging. :( And, it sounds like you're still dealing with the lost of your first child, so you've evidently had a rough time lately!
But, I do think it's important to make sure you and your husband both come to an understanding before you make any moves to get pregnant-as hard as that may be. ***this post is edited by moderator *** *** web addresses not allowed***
Well, don't give up hope. Your husband may just need some more time. And, while you're waiting, maybe you can find more healing after losing your son and get yourself ready for whenever a baby may come. You'll be in my thoughts!
But, I do think it's important to make sure you and your husband both come to an understanding before you make any moves to get pregnant-as hard as that may be. ***this post is edited by moderator *** *** web addresses not allowed***
Well, don't give up hope. Your husband may just need some more time. And, while you're waiting, maybe you can find more healing after losing your son and get yourself ready for whenever a baby may come. You'll be in my thoughts!
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thx your post really helps and this time i think we are cause i guess we have to be cause im 15 weeks pregnant with twins now im extra scared cause i dont know what to expect with it they are fraternal twins but its still scary
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