Is there a danger that you might lose him if you tell your mom? I think it is good if you can talk about this with your mom, and I am glad you want to tell her.
What are your 'limits'? Did you cross them? If so, think (maybe talk) about what happened and how it happened. You said "it just happened", but it just happened twice. But that is the nature of sex. So by determining what happened, you can set boundaries, which you must both agree.
Take care
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Are you telling me that i should just tell my mom about this? My cousin don't want me to tell anything about this to my mom. We're both afraid of how my mom would react. Yes there would be. I would definitely lose him if I tell her. I'm sorry if I can't answer all of your questions. I'm having a hard time trying to understand what you mean in some of your questions.
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I assume you mean that your mom would react badly and stop you seeing him. You haven't told me where you live or what the cultural implications are, so it is difficult to be more specific in advice. Also it might help me in the phrasing of the questions.
If you don't want to talk about this in public, them you can private message me.
Think about what your mom's reaction might be, and maybe her reasons for that reaction. You had said you really wanted to talk to your mom about what happened. I don't know your mom, but she might be glad to talk to you, and it seems from what you have said that you get on well with her. She might be one who just shouts and condemns, but she might be one who understands, and can help you set boundaries. It would reaffirm her 'trust' in you. As a father of girls, I would rather they talked to me about their problems with activities I might disagree with, than to struggle on without help. You don't want things to get out of hand with your boyfriend, as can so easily happen. Losing him might be painful; getting pregnant would be far worse.
You said "I'm having a hard time trying to understand what you mean in some of your questions". Not to worry; you can ask me what I mean by a particular question and I will try and explain.
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So i told my mom about everything. She got really mad but i understand why. I'm not allowed to use my phone and my boyfriend and i broke up. You were right about "Losing him might be painful; getting pregnant would be far worse". It's 26th of May still not having my menstruation. I used pregnancy test and it came back negative. But i'm still worried that i might be pregnant. Thank you so much for everything.
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I am glad you told you mom, and I am also glad you understand why she got mad. I hope it brings you closer to her. Did she give you any helpful advice?
I don't think you will become pregnant.
The negative test is likely to be accurate regarding the 15th April activity. It is 6 weeks after then.
As far as the 17th May is concerned, it would probably only be a fertile day if you ovulated on one of the days during 17th May to 22nd May. If that were the case, it would lead to a period being expected on during 31st May to 5th June. So for there to be even a chance of pregnancy, you would not expect a period until 31st May at the earliest. So the fact that you have not had a period yet would not lead me to think you are likely to become pregnant. If you have not had a period by 7th June, then take another test. That would be 3 weeks after 17th May, and so likely to be accurate.
However, from what you have said about the detail of your activity, I don't think you are likely to become pregnant. There may be other reasons you have not had a period Have you read the article on this site?
- https://www.steadyhealth.com/articles/Delayed_Menstruation__What_Could_Cause_It__a37.html
I hope this helps, but if you want to talk about it some more, just ask.
Take care.
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I would like to talk about it more but you see i'm not also allowed to use the computer. My moms not here so that's the reason i can reply. I hope I'm not pregnant. I'll read the article on the site you gave. Thank you so much
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One more thing. 10 days had passed already since we did that. If I'm pregnant, should I be experiencing any symptoms of pregnancy?
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You will not necessarily experience symptoms yet. Implantation (when you actually become pregnant) occurs 6-12 days after ovulation (often 9 days). As sperm can live in a woman's body 5-6days, it could occur up to 18 days after sperm enters a woman's body. Many women don't realise they're pregnant until they have well missed a period, and they then take a test.
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Yes. Waiting is stressful. I would be very surprised if you did become pregnant from what you say you did. Does your mom know you have had a negative test result? If so, what was her reaction?
Keep in touch if you can.
Take care.
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Yes she knew about the negative test result. Well after that she just gave me a hug and told me that i should never do it again. I just had my menstruation yesterday 30th May. So yeah :) I think we're done with this topic. Thank you :)
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That's good to hear. So that cycle was 45 days. Keep an eye on your cycle so you can spot any menstrual problems. It may be that a medical check up will be needed if your cycles don't become regular over time. I'm glad thing are well with your mom.
I am glad to have been of help to you.
Take care.
Farewell
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