hi everyone i am new to the forum.
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i was with my ex boyfriend for 4 years..i broke up with him last September because things were getting too comfortable, he wasn't his fun loving self anymore (maybe he was depressed) and was not being proactive in our relationship and i felt (being so young only 21 at the time of the break up) that i needed to have a taste of life. our relationship before the last 8 months of it was amazing...we never cheated on eac hother, had great communication, had a great combination of both love and friends in our life to keep things in balance. i met him too young. i thought i could get over him in the past year...i tried out the dating life, back packed through europe for 3 months..did everything i wanted to do.
when we first broke up i was so ready, needing to be alone to grow..i could feel it in me...the break up was hard, but i put it out of my mind for a long time...just got straight into partying the good life...never really thought about anything, all the while he was suffering missing me. finally i start dealing with it in march about 5 months after we broke up...it hit me hard, i pushed it away but it continues to hit me hard everyday...its been a year now, a little over a year. there hasn't been a week i havent cried in the past 6 months, even while in europe on the trip of a lifetime i would randomly just start crying. i guess i just needed time away from him to realize that he is who i really want in my life. soo in august i told him i was still in love with him, i know he was happy, but he was holding back. i hurt him when i broke up with him...so i guess its goign to take a while before he can trust me again, trust me with his heart. the good news is, he is coming around slowly now almost 2 months later. ill keep u updated on what happens.
i hope we can be together again, when i am with him i feel 100% complete. its crazy. before now i was really depressed, i still am, but i am feeling better. i felt like my heart was empty, it was broken and now it is start to heal again...a little bit. actually, that reminds me, since i am talking in tangents, i just read this interesting article that talks about how having a broken heart can actually be a medical condition caused by stress, and can cause heart attacks in some people. geez!
well thanks for listening to me ramble, ill let you know if get him back :) positive thoughts
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heres a new topic...
i was with my ex boyfriend for 4 years..i broke up with him last September because things were getting too comfortable, he wasn't his fun loving self anymore (maybe he was depressed) and was not being proactive in our relationship and i felt (being so young only 21 at the time of the break up) that i needed to have a taste of life. our relationship before the last 8 months of it was amazing...we never cheated on eac hother, had great communication, had a great combination of both love and friends in our life to keep things in balance. i met him too young. i thought i could get over him in the past year...i tried out the dating life, back packed through europe for 3 months..did everything i wanted to do.
when we first broke up i was so ready, needing to be alone to grow..i could feel it in me...the break up was hard, but i put it out of my mind for a long time...just got straight into partying the good life...never really thought about anything, all the while he was suffering missing me. finally i start dealing with it in march about 5 months after we broke up...it hit me hard, i pushed it away but it continues to hit me hard everyday...its been a year now, a little over a year. there hasn't been a week i havent cried in the past 6 months, even while in europe on the trip of a lifetime i would randomly just start crying. i guess i just needed time away from him to realize that he is who i really want in my life. soo in august i told him i was still in love with him, i know he was happy, but he was holding back. i hurt him when i broke up with him...so i guess its goign to take a while before he can trust me again, trust me with his heart. the good news is, he is coming around slowly now almost 2 months later. ill keep u updated on what happens.
i hope we can be together again, when i am with him i feel 100% complete. its crazy. before now i was really depressed, i still am, but i am feeling better. i felt like my heart was empty, it was broken and now it is start to heal again...a little bit. actually, that reminds me, since i am talking in tangents, i just read this interesting article that talks about how having a broken heart can actually be a medical condition caused by stress, and can cause heart attacks in some people. geez!
well thanks for listening to me ramble, ill let you know if get him back :) positive thoughts
article: ***edited by moderator*** web addresses not allowed
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Seems normal to me. You got bored of your relationship then after having your immature fun you want him back.
Being emotional and wanting to have fun with life is just part of being young.
Being emotional and wanting to have fun with life is just part of being young.
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Hi Natalie I read your post and I wish I was more like you independent, strong but still sensitive. I just waned to stop in to wish you the best with your boyfriend it looks promising. Im sorry I don't have any good advice to give you because as you know I don't even have a great outlook about myself and my relationship so I would feel wrong to say anything. I also wanted to tell you that your post was really encouraging and I thank you. I hope to improve soon but I'll keep you post. Thanks again =)
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