Hello i am 13 and i want to have sex with my friend. she isnt the slutty type so what should i do to ask her without say "hey wanna have sex?" (no answers like: your to young, or Dont do it"
Do you even care about her? I would ask her. If you two are close Friends and it will be both of your first times, I would say "Listen, we have been friends for a long time now. i really like being with you, and I feel comfortable with you. Please don't take this the wrong way, but i want to be your first. I want YOU to be my first and I want to be yours. NO one will know, we will keep it between you and me." Then wait for a reply. Or you could just strike up a serious conversation with her about the topic sex one day and ask her what she thinks about it. Just remember, something like this can make, or break a friendship and it might not be pretty.
The best bet is to just bring it up cassually. Make sure she really wants to though, cause you dont wanna end up making her regret it so make sure you both are ready. Sex is a bigger deal than most people that age think. But if you feel your ready, and she feels the same. Go for it! But stay safe! Use a condom!