Help! Feel like sperm is obstructed/blocked during ejaculati

Hello I have this weird feeling in my penis that feels like a rush of urine wants to come out. When I push it out it goes away for 30-60 minnutes but that feeling starts up again. A few days later it felt like semen had to be pushed out and I'm not sure if it's a good thing to push the semen out or not. Can some one please help.

I also haven't had sex before and haven't masturbated in a long time

I feel the same for about 2 years now, it started that i notice when i really had to go to take a piss, and had morning wood, well i went to hurry up so i coukd take a leak and it bent in half and hurt, i rold my doctor about it since i see him every 3 month's and yes embarrassing to talk about, but i did wife likes the cowboy position and since then its slupped out and hurt like what happened, i get NO PLEASURE AT ALL and my sex life is pretty mych DEAD, it makes me feel like I'm not a MAN at all, I see my doctor for pre-existing conditions, I'M disabled and take medications so i get checked every 3 month's and blood work, never had any enlarged prostate at all and stated its all normal durning checkups, last appointment he sent me for my blood work and a urinalysis, its been about a year in half max since last 1 and this time it showed some blood in my pee, so he sent me for a 2nd one, now i gave an appointment in July, When I had sex or masterbated, it hurts a little from under the shaft to my right side going up about 6 to 8 inchrs to where i feel the kind of unexplainable pain, its hard to desribe the pain, it just to say it hurts but i dont have alot of sperm like before and even the wife said last time that it looks like your srinking and by my hand, i have and makes me feel less like a man, my wife tries all the time still, at least once a month and its no and i say now you know how i felt when you woyld state mot tonight i have a headache, but now shes not trying until we find out whats wrong, when this began my doctor said you could of broken your penis,I'M like your serious, I thought there's no bones and it was blood flow, thats when he explained to me and sometimes if people do then they got to have a operation on it. I'm like no way someone is cutting my pemis open, are you CRAZY, so he then told me not to have sex for a few months so it can heel, but if it continues to hurt as bad as it did in the beginning then i wouldn't reallt have a choice, you can die or have it never work again, well it works but with pain and its not like a papercut or you slammed your hand in the door, its just a annoying pain that hurts only durning ejaculation only, sometimes ir acts lije a turtle and srinks up into the shaft and the head gets COLD, that happens from time to time like once or twice a month, when i wake up in the mornings and go take a leak, my head is cold and looks like it also like winter and your face cheeks get cold and change color enough to notice, its nor all the time and is weird, i still wake up with morning wood 3 to 4 times a week, i want to please my wife and surprise her but I'm affraid to and feel like its the very 1st time, she tries but i won't do anything at all to her at all because of myseft, i have been putting it off because my son was at college the last 4 years and just Graduated and just got married on june 24th so i got alor of that stress lifted but i still have a 16 year old other son, both our kids, I'M barely just turned 46 and miss it like no tomorrow. Ive tried porn by myseft and NOPE. My penis gets hard when its wants to. So with having a Dr,s appt in July, im hoping this guy can figure out both problems, and i went for and ULTRASOUND of my abdomen and it was to look for anything wrong wirh kidneys and other things they looked at, ir took luke and hour, i felt like when my wife was pregnant for our kids and joked around but she was very serious, i called a week later because no calls from my doctor and they told me if anything was wrong that she was looking for that my doctor wrote down, she said i would of left by ambulance, that was 2 weeks ago and that scared the hell out of me with my sons wedding in less than 2 weeks away. So once i fund out any infomation on why and i noticed that none that i read had any blood in there urine, Its not noticeable at all and my pee isnt dark and appears normal to me. My wife is a Medical Assistance and my sister is and RN so i can get anwsers from her abour thing's but i haven't told anyone about this, i just don't know if the wife spoke to my sister, my family is more of a family than her own so she would but I haven't heard anything about it at all. I'll try to update this in the end if July or August ince i either find out stuff but if no news then no need to tell more of my story that siunds just like all that i have read here, only tjing is that I'm 100% HONEST AND TJATS NOT EASY BUT I DONT LIE NOT EVEN TO UNKNOWN PEOPLE, I will state that I'm worried about it and that maybe it did break from trying to pull out of my boxers and bent in half and hurt, thats happened before during sex and wiw does it hurt, you wait a minute and go back at it like animals in love/lust and now it stinks. The wife tried everything and yes i enjoy and do cum but just about a teaspoom in a have from what i did before, thats like only 1/4 of it, like i said mow i dont let her or even try on myseft because of that small pain that hurts just emough to make you not want sex at all and thats not me, the wind blew and i was hard teady to have sex wherever and we did when we were younger and when we were taking walks around the campground back in 2010 was our last craziness of stuff like that, kid's alway interrupt so we found other places plus lunch time, she only wirks 2 miles away with a 1 hour lunch and kids were in school, just lost it ever since that hard on that bent while trying to hurry up plus i was woking up to go at 5 in the morning, and hour before i get up for the day. Hope others can be 100% HONEST if they have same type onf problems but just still embarrass to State a few things, I am but i did and we have to if we want our SEX LIFE'S BACK LIKE THE WAY WE WERE LIKE A 20 YEAR OLD KID AGAIN AND ENJOY WITHOUT PAIN PLUS MAKE ME FEEL MORE LIKE A COMPLETE MAN AND NOT A QUARTER OF ONE. THANK YOU ALL FOR READING.SINGED BY JJ. By the way, i do take medications for my INJURIES, one is for musul spasms and one pain killer and that changed in october of 2013 and that worked grest, name brand but i cant take generic form so I takea different 1 since and it took 5 different pain pulls before 1 worked enough but not like the name brand i was on and im taking a vitamin pill of 50,000 units of vitamin D over the last 2 years also, i began getting tired all the time and my meds were to blame for it, my old med was the same but didnt make me tired at all, not like this one or theres something wrong, my med got upped from 2 mg by every 4 hours to 4 mg to every 4 hours or as needed, i take it 3 to 4 times a day and dont like it, but if i want to get up out of bed, then i need my meds to take the pain away anough, if i miss even by being 3 hours late, then I'm getting leg and back spasms that feels like I'm getting stabbed with knives in my back and legs ans if I'm driving i pull over to the side ASAP because of pain that bad, that ACCIDENT happenef in 1998 so i was on and off meds the 1st 1 or 2 then just took spasms pills and drank lits of water then it got to a point that i couldn't do my job at all or even drive back then and got back to my meds, my young life of riding dirtbikes and entering demolition derbies and just beat myseft up and i almost went to stunk driving school plus the other stunts because i was a crazy kid that had fun even if i got HURT then i had a grest day, never broke bines until 1998 and smashed borh my heals and shattered them and crushed my back from a 40 foor fall straight down from climbing a tree at our 10th year Halloween party and was doing a stunt and the tree snapped, i tried to het up so i could go lie down at my friends house so they wouldn't go up back out in the woids about 1500 feet from road, well i couldnt stand but was gonna when my friends wife thats a RN and there friend is a EMT and told me to lay back down before I'm paralyzed, i came within 2 cm of being paralysed and they rebuilt both my feet but let the back heel. , i also gained 25lbs and quit smoking and all hoping it would help me better heel. I wonder if its a combo of things done in a short period of time and i smoked 2 packs a day then 1 meds change and 1 added of vitamin D, smoking was almost 4 years and will be 4 in January, im sorry for any misspelled word's, im using my Samsung phone and the updates has changed my cell for the WORST. It changes word's that i read then read again after sending and have dont the words dont make sense. Again thank you for the read and i dont use any FACEBOOK stuff at all and I'm not tech savvy. JJ.

Did your problems resolve ?

Hi,
I started masturbating at a very young age. I did more masturbation than women in my life. At some stage my sperm was getting lower and lower. I was squeezing my penis hard to get that coming out feeling very quickly. Even if I did not see any sperm. My point was the self enjoyment and i was very addicted. I did it over 20 years.
my first marriage was a challenge because my wife did not like much sex and my best way out was trough masturbation again. After my second marriade, I realized that I abused my penis. I could have so much sex with no drop of sperm. I ran dry for a long time. The sperm couldn't come out easily. After a so long periode of sex only without masturbation, I realised that my sperm was coming very week and with a big pain on the top part of my penis. And after that very strange colour of my urine. It was urine and blood. This was happening only if I make love. One day after m
aking love, I hade a similar pain. I went to urine, it was heavy old blood and my pipe was clean again. I checked with the doctor and I was fine. For me, masturbation was not good.

I'm a female and i found this site so obviously it's not just a make thing? I read a lot about female maybe I should just take a look at different sites and see the common answers. Everyone have an opinion but no facts so use the process of elimination

This is a late reply to your post, but something similar happened to me about 12 years ago except it was squeezed in that area just after ejaculation, between the base of the penis and scrotum. I felt a sharp pain in the corpus spongiosum (the middle chamber of the penis that contains the urethra) below the base of the penis, and it became congestion. I tried different things myself, hot pads, cold, massage, which may have made it worse. It felt like the corpus spongiosum forward of that point didn't fill up completely in the middle of my penis, and when masturbating, it didn't feel like my penis--the energy flow of the organism was blocked and whereas before, semen used to shoot out it, after that, it dribbled out. After eight months I went to an older urologist I'd seen before, and he was dismissing it before he even examined me. At that time one couldn't physically detect anything unless I was erect or semi-erect, and I couldn't do that in the office, so he was of no help. A week or two after that after that I saw a second urologist recommended by a neighbor, who was a doctor. That urologist did a more careful exam and was able to feel what I was talking about even though I was not erect. He explained what happened; I had a rupture of erectile tissue in the corpus spongiosum at the base of the penis where it comes out of the testicular area. He said ultrasound imaging wouldn't be of any use, and it takes about a year for the tissue to soften up. That was at 8 months; after year it was not much better; after a year and a quarter, and a year and a half, when I asked him for the prognosis he didn't say anything, so I stopped going back. A few years later I saw another urologist someone recommended, and he said he couldn't find anything, and when I pointed out the now somewhat more palpable area, he dismissed it as some other normal partition structure. When I said the other urologists said that I had a rupture of erectile tissue, he said, maybe I had a slight tear--"Don't do that again" as know it was some routine thing I did rather than and injury I suffered from someone else--unbelievably dismissive. I mean, they can reattach severed penises and they can't or won't even acknowledge something like this? For the the first few years after this happened, when I would sit down I would have to pull my testicles out as it felt like there wasn't enough room in my groin, and when I walked, I felt pressure in my groin. Those issues dissipated after a few years. At first there wasn't much of a problem with urinating, but as time went by after a number years that seemed to become somewhat blocked also, sometimes painfully so, more sometimes than other times, as scar tissue seems to settle in. Searching the Internet I found one case that was much the same as mine, where his girlfriend, who was on-top, had come down wrong, causing a rupture in the corpus spongiosum below the base of the penis. He went the next day to the hospital and they did an MRI and various tests, and discovered a longitudinal tear in erectile tissue which required surgery and three stitches to close--this is probably what should have been done with me, but it was too late, I assume after so long, where scar tissue forms and seems to get worse. I think partly because of psychological and physical feedback along with getting older, but mostly I think because of this issue, and maybe attempts to treat myself, as no doctors offered any help, my testosterone dropped to about half of what it was a few years before, so I eventually went on topical testosterone replacement. When I mentioned the problem to my hormone balancing doctor, it was equally unresponsive--he is prescribing hormones for sex drive (and general health) yet doesn't seem to care about problems releasing the sex drive. It does have a big effect on one's confidence, and having to maybe explain it to someone new, which is embarrassing in itself. I tried cialis for a while intermittently and it seemed to help at first, but I think it becomes counter-productive after a while and I was getting side effects like stiff hip joints. I found occasional small amounts of Yohimbine HCL to be somewhat effective, just be careful of side effects and start a low-dose. I actually discovered it's use by taking less than a teaspoon, that is, less than a quarter of a pouch, of Vital4U Screamin' Ultra Energy, maybe once a week. I usually take about a half a teaspoon. The problem is is a stimulant so I don't necessarily want to feel that also. What it does that Cialis doesn't do is it facilitates orgasm. I wonder if there is any type of treatment or surgery that can be done years after the injury. And this was an injury; it wasn't something that happened over time or without apparent reason. There were a couple of quack doctors on the Internet attempting to sell some sort of bogus cream. (not a corticosteroid cream). I wouldn't waste my money on that; besides, you don't know what's really in it.

Hey dude. I'm 33 years old and i ve had the same ejaculation obstruction since i was 23... i ve been to 7 urologists, did tons of medical exams, and wasted tons money, and im gonna tell you, these doctors are f*****g useless and clueless... all they care about is money, and they are not gonna investigate nothing... this situation made me infertile, i think it was due to the cyst i had in my right epydimis testicle, but i believe theres more reasons behind all this...  this problem has been hunting my life for 10 years now.... it destroyed the joy in my life, the pleasure from sex, i was starting to accept my ejaculation problem, because i was still having good sex and was on a great relationship... But in 2012 i started having erection problems... everything got worse... i think the blockage of the semen causes the pelvic floor to get weaker, in my opinion the reason for starting agfecting my erections... but all urologists are idiots in this field and dont admit they dont know sh*t... so they just say its all psycological.. which is not!! The best we can do now is to take care of our bodys... thats why i started working out a lot, yoga, weight lifting, avoid sitting down to much, and having a better diet..  i got some minor improvements but the problem did not went away... its 2017 and my life is getting worse and worse, i lost a 8 year relationship, i cant have sex properly or even enjoy it i lost my pride and conficende... im still a young man but i feel like an old man waiting for death... All I carry with me is a bagage of problems i cannot overcome... i cant even consider looking for a new partner for a new relationship due to all the embaracement... this sh*t is worse than cancer... i hope all of you overcome this sh*t eventually... good luck!

i had an experience just like you sir.. and i feel so sad right now..

but Sir .. do your peeing process OK?
im 16 yrs old sir and i already felt things like this :( i was masturbating that time and accidentally my brief's garter blocked my penis while cumming and felt like i couldnt feel and control the fluid flowing inside my penis..
i tried to pee and i couldnt control it.. only a small drops of urine flows.. :(
its been 4 days na..

I'm experience the samething and it all started sameway yours started by pressing against the lower base to the sack.

When i ejaculate it burns and i can literally feel a blockage, and also when i pee.

I was worried it might have been an infection couple months back so i went in a checked my self out and i was fine, and my overall bloodtest results are perfectly fine.

I have had the same thing for 5 years now and I am 26 right now, I think it has something to do with a muscle, apparently cyclist get it often, but its a rare thing, I have seen many urologist who have no clue, to a point where they told me it was in my mind. It is sad to lose some of the best years of my youth like this. Hope we find a solution one day.

i been trying to figure out whatz going on with my body for about a month with no luck till i just read this post, u sir are a genuis lol im 26 years old and worked as a truck driver/ warehouse worker who lifted heavy sh*t all day. ended up hurting my back lifting something in the lower part of my spine and it feels like what your describing. my sex life changed because my sex drive sky dived because of it. never got rest or had time to do anything about it till now, hopefully this is whats wrong with me and its not too late... sucks that i have to give up masterbating but its for the best lol anyways thanks for your help hopefully your advice works

POTENTIAL SOLUTION: Weak / Obstructed / Blocked / Less-Pleasurable Ejaculation

I read through a lot of the comments on this post, identifying similarities between all of your symptoms and some of my own:

• weak or "incomplete" ejaculation -- as though I still had more to get out
• moderately painful ejaculation (occasionally)
• prostate fluid discharge after larger bowel movements -- which is actually the stool pushing against your prostate (occasionally)
• decrease in ejaculation volume 
• weakened "force" of ejaculation (the feeling was still strong, but the velocity, if you will, was weaker)
• weakened urine stream

I too saw a urologist who ruled out the typical initial concerns (UTI, STD, bacterial prostatitis, etc.). The urologist did notice a "slightly enlarged" prostate and did the "milking the prostate" routine some of you have experienced (note: it's situationally uncomfortable at first -- but it's what your urologist does, and physically it simply mirrors the feeling of urinating). Had several tests conducting, all inconclusive, though they did rule out the more serious things I was worried about. 

Ultimately diagnosed with Chronic Prostatitis. Did some research, somewhat fits, though not ultimately convinced it's the cause. Can't say why, just intuition based on moderate research. Feels like my prostate is inflamed BECAUSE of the ejaculation issue, not the other way around.

I also noticed certain lifestyle similarities between other posters and myself:

1. desk jobs
2. long-term sitting
3. infrequent exercise
4. problem improved with moderate exercise
5. problem improved through REDUCED ejaculation
6. problem improved through INCREASED ejaculation*

SOLUTION: weak Pelvic Floor (translation: weak prostate)

At first, I disregarded the handful of articles I stumbled across addressing this. But, after visiting doctors, researching, reading various forums, identifying the common denominators between sufferers, etc. I believe the solution, at least for some of you out there (hopefully more) is to begin strengthening your pelvic floor muscles. Do some research, but the gist of it is: strengthen the muscles used to ejaculate (same muscles you use to start/stop urinating).

1. 50-100 reps, 2-3 sets per day 
2. For every 10th rep, hold it (continue clenching) for 10-15 seconds).
3. Jumping Jacks, Squats (with or without weights), Bridges, etc.

I'm in my mid-thirties and between prolonged computer work, decreased exercise, and perhaps some other less-desirable habits (irregular sleep patterns, occasional sleep deprivation, the occasional one too many _____ ) I believe I got myself out of whack. For the past 8 days I've been conducting these exercises regularly and I already notice a significant difference in the strength of my urine stream (which eventually got to feeling like I was 70 years old at the worst of my symptoms), the strength of my ejaculations, and the feeling of full release. I plan to eventually add in those additional exercises I noted above, but just wanted to inform you all that this is a very easy potential solution with nothing but positive effects, even if you don't suffer from the same root issues, all of us men can benefit from strengthening our pelvic floor muscles. 

*The reason I saw improvement with increased ejaculation was bc, with increased ejaculation I was "working out" my pelvic floor muscles = good. However, I also wasn't getting all the ejaculation out, which caused sort of a post-ejaculation dull pain (similar to swelling or throbbing). I don't know how this effects the prostate and everything else. But eventually urinating or bowel movements would cause an additional release. Therefore, decreased ejaculation would help bc it seems my body would lower production (so to speak) and/or I wouldn't have anything left over/not ejaculated. 

 

PS: thanks to all who posted. I'm glad the internet has provided us with an awkward-free zone to be able to communicate with each other and share our collective knowledge and experiences to help one another out. I do hope this helps some of you out there!

Wow. Ok, first of all it is both reassuring and scary to discover so many people with the same issue.
My situation:
- Mid 40's
- Sex once or twice per week on average. Masturbation maybe once per month.
- Previously: very strong, satisfying ejaculations. Now: very restricted feeling; volume only a fraction of what it used to be; ejaculating causes uncomfortable "blue balls" type feeling rather than feeling pleasant and relieving.
- Urine stream still seems fairly normal. Not noticeably different.

The sitting at a desk all day / bad posture thing definitely sounds like a potential cause to me. That one hits home for me, which is a relief because at least it is something I can try to correct. I'm also almost certain that the "over-masturbation" thing would NOT be a cause. It doesn't apply to me anyway, but even daily should not be a problem, in fact most medical advice I've read is that regular masturbation is healthy. I wish my libido was higher than only wanting an orgasm once or twice a week.

My job involves staring at my computer screen all day every day (and to make it worse, I use my computer a lot for entertainment/social media as well during my non working hours), and my posture is actually pretty bad now that I think about it. Also some days I will barely get up or move from my chair. In the last few months I've had a permanent very mild ache in my lower back that I have just learned to live with, which is dumb on my part. I have also minimised my wearing of jeans over the last year or so because I found them starting to cause general discomfort downstairs that is better when I wear something more loose.
I can't change my job but I'm going to take some steps to try to improve my posture, try to regularly move (I'm thinking maybe set an alarm to get up and have a brief walk/stretch every hour during the day). My computer monitor stand is at its highest setting but probably should be another 10cm (4") higher so that I'm looking straight ahead rather than downwards, so I should probably try to get a better (taller) one. Not cheap, but more than worth it if it helps with this very uncomfortable issue.

This reached the point of action for me last night. I woke up around midnight feeling very turned on, which is very rare for me. But "relieving myself" didn't satisfy me or help me back to sleep like it should have. Instead it caused a horrible restricted, backed-up feeling downstairs. Over the last year or so, orgasms have gradually gone from being great to being bad, and last night was the last straw that made me really panic.
If I have any success I'll definitely report back.