I have these painful hard bumps on my outer labia, they are kind of indented looking in the center and they look like they might have pus in them. They really hurt and make underwear uncomfortable and I can feel it when I sit and everything. When I urinate it is very painful.
I also noticed that I was tender like a bruise on the inside on the part where my left leg connects w/ genital area, bikini line I guess, but I pressed and it's sore.
My bf and I have engaged in threesome sex w/ another female, protection was used mostly but I know that full protection was not used EVERY time, so I'm thinking it's from that. I'm so pissed about it now because it wasn't worth it.
I'm really really really scared like about to have freaking anxiety attacks over this c**p.
I just got back from work and talked to this lady I work with that I can confide in, I haven't been diagnosed, but she pretty much told me it's herpes, I guess she has it, so I'm sure she knows what it's like...She said it's no big deal you'll take meds to get rid of breakouts and the rest of the time it's pretty much normal or whatever. But it never goes away..
And if that is what it is, GOD I don't wanna tell my mom...I am embarrassed and scared and I just feel like my whole life is over. If that is what it is then it makes me want to freaking just end my life now.
I also noticed that I was tender like a bruise on the inside on the part where my left leg connects w/ genital area, bikini line I guess, but I pressed and it's sore.
My bf and I have engaged in threesome sex w/ another female, protection was used mostly but I know that full protection was not used EVERY time, so I'm thinking it's from that. I'm so pissed about it now because it wasn't worth it.
I'm really really really scared like about to have freaking anxiety attacks over this c**p.
I just got back from work and talked to this lady I work with that I can confide in, I haven't been diagnosed, but she pretty much told me it's herpes, I guess she has it, so I'm sure she knows what it's like...She said it's no big deal you'll take meds to get rid of breakouts and the rest of the time it's pretty much normal or whatever. But it never goes away..
And if that is what it is, GOD I don't wanna tell my mom...I am embarrassed and scared and I just feel like my whole life is over. If that is what it is then it makes me want to freaking just end my life now.
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Darling try to not worry yet, very hard to l know.
Now this woman you have confided in should not tell you that you have herpes, she does not know you do.
l do know this for sure, sometimes a first time break out of herpes is very painful, they are like blisters . I have a few friends who have herpes. But after the first out break, you might not have another one for years and years. Your life will not be destroyed if you do have it, their is medication, and management, you may only have a few outbreaks in your life. A huge percentage of the population have herpes,
I dont know about the bruise, maybe you hurt yourself with sex, or something
Dont be hard on yourself about the three way sex, no use in doing that, you cant take things back, or change things. Their is always a positive in everything, This has taught you something, and you will wont be having unprotected sex , a good thing.
Maybe you should talk to your mum, just give her a warning first that this is very hard for you to talk about, and you NEED HER TO NOT GET ANGRY with you. Mums (most of them) will understand and be very supportive. I wish you luck . If you want any more advice, l would be happy to help
Now this woman you have confided in should not tell you that you have herpes, she does not know you do.
l do know this for sure, sometimes a first time break out of herpes is very painful, they are like blisters . I have a few friends who have herpes. But after the first out break, you might not have another one for years and years. Your life will not be destroyed if you do have it, their is medication, and management, you may only have a few outbreaks in your life. A huge percentage of the population have herpes,
I dont know about the bruise, maybe you hurt yourself with sex, or something
Dont be hard on yourself about the three way sex, no use in doing that, you cant take things back, or change things. Their is always a positive in everything, This has taught you something, and you will wont be having unprotected sex , a good thing.
Maybe you should talk to your mum, just give her a warning first that this is very hard for you to talk about, and you NEED HER TO NOT GET ANGRY with you. Mums (most of them) will understand and be very supportive. I wish you luck . If you want any more advice, l would be happy to help
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i once had herpes and i wont forget those times that I had it.. just have patience during the medication.. what i did is that i always rinse with lukewarm water and alcohol.. i have my pads with alcohol .. it lasted for about 3 weeks.. so have patience.. ;)
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I do have the virus and would like to talk to you!
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My daughter has blisters, and bubbles, and warts, and they are bleeding. Someone told her she has herpes. I always taught that herpes is a disease given to you when you have sex. Is that true?
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