im going through a hard time with my relationship with my boyfriend because he is always going out with his friends every friaday and saturday and gets home like at 6 in the morning and always leaves me home with my two little girls without getting us out anywhere and we are always fighting because of that but i think he is cheating on me because he never answer hes phone when i 'am calling him and i don't know what to think now please tell me what can i do............................ :'(
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You need to find a time, when you are both alone without your girls and really talk this out. Communicate your feelings, observations and desires in a non-confrontational or accusatory manner.
If you could both open the lines of honest and open communication hopefully you can find answers and a solution. You may learn what is going on with him.. that he has unfilfilled desires in your relationship or other underlying issues that need to be addressed now.
I find what he is doing is unacceptable in a realtionship, especially one with children. When someone is in a relationship, has taken it so far as to create chidlren...their full attention and concern should always be with their family first and foremost.
I do not know your ages or anything...but he may not be mature enough to handle life as it is.... maybe he thinks this is okay and acceptable because he has single friends and wants to party with them.
So do not fight with him, sit down alone and have a calm and open discussion, put all your cards on the table and allow him to do the same... that way you know what the next step to take is.
Good luck!
If you could both open the lines of honest and open communication hopefully you can find answers and a solution. You may learn what is going on with him.. that he has unfilfilled desires in your relationship or other underlying issues that need to be addressed now.
I find what he is doing is unacceptable in a realtionship, especially one with children. When someone is in a relationship, has taken it so far as to create chidlren...their full attention and concern should always be with their family first and foremost.
I do not know your ages or anything...but he may not be mature enough to handle life as it is.... maybe he thinks this is okay and acceptable because he has single friends and wants to party with them.
So do not fight with him, sit down alone and have a calm and open discussion, put all your cards on the table and allow him to do the same... that way you know what the next step to take is.
Good luck!
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