Agree, tests are not accurate enough. My wife and I have been married for 3 years. Had a child, and we’re both negative before baby. Now she’s pregnant with our second child and dr said she has chlamydia and neither of us have been with anyone else. Doesn’t make sense they say one of us had to of cheated, this STD can cause serious trust issues and think it needs more research to assume sex is the only way of transfer.
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the same thing happened to me, i have been with the same person over a year in a faithful relationship tested negative with my first son now pregnant with my second and tested postitive and my s.o thinks i cheated when i could take a lie detector test proving i never cheated on him from the day we first met, all i can think its the test was wrong or they missed it the first time they tested and he had given it to me from his past relationships. or it was contracted another way and they think its only thorugh sexual contact ,because this entire thing doesnt make any sense to me and still doesnt
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I went to the doctor for a UTI because I had had one recently, it came back negative for any infection. I went to my primary doctor to get a pap because i was still having symptoms after taking antibiotics for a UTI. She said it looked like a had a yeast infection and she gave me medicine for it which cleared up my symptoms. On the day some of my symptoms came back (a week later) my doctor called and said my test showed I had chlamydia. I was in shock. My husband and I have been together for 5 years and when I confronted him he swore to God he never cheated on me and he never will. I looked through his phone that night and didn’t find anything. I’m still so upset over this and idk what to think. My doctor seems pretty sure someone cheated but when I asked she said the infection can lay dormant (5 years is a long time but it is possible) we both had partners before we met, I had 1 and he had 4. I begged him to tell me what happened at least for my health and cried for hours. He kept saying he never did anything and I know this man so it really seemed like he was telling the truth. The news of this has me extremely depressed and he is going to get tested and treated next week. This is just the craziest thing that’s ever happened to me.
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hi Guest
Sorry your going through this difficult situation.
Hope for your peace of mind that it gets resolved in a way that does not hurt you or strain your relationship.
With your husband hopefully telling you the truth there will always be some doubt I would think maybe if you asked him just to put your mind at ease if you go with him to his doctor appointment if he was treated for chlamydia it should be in his medical records. It would prove he was faithful and put your mind at ease if he was never treated for it.
Hope everything works out well for you.
Sorry your going through this difficult situation.
Hope for your peace of mind that it gets resolved in a way that does not hurt you or strain your relationship.
With your husband hopefully telling you the truth there will always be some doubt I would think maybe if you asked him just to put your mind at ease if you go with him to his doctor appointment if he was treated for chlamydia it should be in his medical records. It would prove he was faithful and put your mind at ease if he was never treated for it.
Hope everything works out well for you.
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I am having the same thing right now. Neither one of us has been with anyone other than each other since meeting 5 years ago. But of course my doctor says there’s no way he didn’t cheat.
I hope your infection had cleared up and you feel better!
I hope your infection had cleared up and you feel better!
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Thank you for replying! I just had to say something on here because it seems like a lot of people have gone through this and the doctors just keep saying it’s infedility. Something seems off..
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This has happened to me twice. First time was debatable but since then I have been tested every 6 months or before a new partner. Seconds time I was tested 2 months into the relationship and showed clean. 6 months later now being over a decade since the first time. I tested positive for clam. And just like the first time my girlfriend was very swift to accuse me, said it had to be me.
Fact is... I never cheated, never will. And despite having the medical evidence to prove it was cheated on. My partner is adamant I had to have cheated and is in complete denial.
Trust no one.
Fact is... I never cheated, never will. And despite having the medical evidence to prove it was cheated on. My partner is adamant I had to have cheated and is in complete denial.
Trust no one.
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Hey thanks for your post I really feel the same way as you do. I have been in a faithful relationship for 3 years my wife got clymedia and I don't have it. She insist that I cheated on her but its so untrue. How can I explain to her that this could of just happened out of no where? idk I'm still confused.
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This is crazy, I've been married almost 13 years now. My husband called me yelling and screaming i gave him Chlamydia. I had just had a std test probably a month and half prior to this. Due to health issues. Those test came back clean, so I went to the hospital and got a copy of my records. I showed it to my husband and at first he seemed to believe me, but after talking with the doctor who did his test he called me to let me know that the only way he could've contacted this was from me. So of course I had to be cheating on him. So I went and got tested a second time, my results were still negative. He was retested and tested positive. He got a prescription. I was told I need to come back in 12 weeks to retest. He says he doesn't know how he got it and he is so confused, I want to believe him, but apart of me can't because he was so quick to assume I cheated. This std is so confusing and can really end a relationship. There definitely needs to be more research done. Because now I feel like a sitting duck, waiting for 12 weeks
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There seems to be a lot of this going around. I do believe in a handful of cases infidelity is involved. In other cases I feel it may have just been dormant. In my case my partner and I have been together for a year and a half, and there's been no extra people at least on my end.
Both of us get tested regularly and things have been negative in more than 5 tests throughout this time. About a month ago I started having symptoms. The Dr collected 2 samples at the same time and both got screened. The first came back positive for C and the second one came back clean - I was able to see a distinct difference in the samples as well. The fact of the matter is, I was having a discharge, and burning when urinating so I am on antibiotics which cleared it up.
I don't know what this will mean for my relationship, but I'm inclined to believe neither of us cheated and that both of use need to be treated at the same time.
Both of us get tested regularly and things have been negative in more than 5 tests throughout this time. About a month ago I started having symptoms. The Dr collected 2 samples at the same time and both got screened. The first came back positive for C and the second one came back clean - I was able to see a distinct difference in the samples as well. The fact of the matter is, I was having a discharge, and burning when urinating so I am on antibiotics which cleared it up.
I don't know what this will mean for my relationship, but I'm inclined to believe neither of us cheated and that both of use need to be treated at the same time.
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Same thing happened to me. I was in a faithful relationship with my boyfriend for 10 months. Out of no where about a month ago, I started feeling strange. I had discomfort when urinating and just felt crappy. Days later my symtoms got worse so I went to an urgent care. Told the doctor how I was feeling and he said I may have an std. I was shocked. I told the doctor I’ve been in a faithful relationship for almost a year. He didn’t care. He showed no sympathy or emotion and just said I can refuse treatmemt if I want. I was devistated. I got treatment and cleared it up. Had a talk with my boyfriend and we argued forever. He acused me of cheating. I was so frustarted because I know I didn’t. The strange thing is. He got tested and his test came back negative. Long story short. He kicked me out of the house and broke up with me. I’ve been so depressed ever since. I’m devistated.
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Omg, 4 years ive been with my husband and non of us has cheated as we both love each other, I had cancer 3 years ago, and my husband resort shows he has it. I never believed it was from cheating.
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Before my gf and I got back tougher I had my regular std screening . My gf was unfaithful to me . I forgave her . We got back together . 2months later I was treated for a sore throat , 1week of amox and 3 shots of rocephin , which is more than enough to clear a bacterial std. 2 months later (its been 4 months now) I go home and 3 weeks from that day I was diagnosed with Chlamydia .
Here came out negative . And then I caught mono. Can we figure this out ?
Here came out negative . And then I caught mono. Can we figure this out ?
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