:-( my husband and I have been together a long time but lately sex is not as often as I would like,sex feels amazing and within minutes I cum many times and because of that he says its like his penis is drowning so he never finishes in me instead he pulls out and looses his erection he says too much cum in there looses the feeling,I do not know what to do to control it and I want him to cum in me for a fantastic finish and hopefully a pregnancy!!any help please
fingering tends to dry the vagina a bit, so perhaps he could try that when he feels that you are too wet. there are also desensitizing creams that can be used, or even ones that increase sensation (so he can continue enjoying it). you could also try using manual or oral stimulation on him to bring him closer before penetration, so he is ready to orgasm before you are "too wet"
First off how old are the 2 of you? how long have you been together? and was sex EVER normal ?? 2nd you cumming alot should be a HUGE turn on to him... 3rd he could just pull out a little and let you or him finish himself off and at the point of no return put it back in you and cum inside of you 4th I think that HE has an issue,mabee he doesnt want a baby,he is with another women or he is afraid that he cant finish for some reason....there is more to this story,I would like more details to give you a male prospective.
My wife and i have reached menopause but we still f**k a lot. I cum easily just banging her in one position throughout sex. Hours passed i finger her again and could feel that my cum is still inside her. I would bang her from behind and cum a second time. He is lousy how could he put the blame on you!