How It Feels To Lose Your Virginity

me 2!!!2day!!...:) it hurtz..bt if u hv d right partner..he wud mak u 4gt all d pain...den itz totally worth it...try lubs n d mantra is RELAX..

I'm 17..I lost mine yesterday and it hurt soo freaking bad....I lasted about 5s or so and just screamed for it to be over..I definitely bleed more than a table spoon..I messed up a whole lot.....there wasn't no enjoyment but my boo kept assuring me that ill get better

You're 13..? Oh god. I know the topic is on losing your virginity but seriously, you're 13. What are you kids doing out there?

I'm a girl and it is quite painful! it's a very weird and unusual feeling of like really strong pressure going somewhere it feels like it shouldn't! the pain travels down your legs and i just clinched my fists and closed my eyes. It made the sweat come out through me like crazy!! but then once it was in I didn't even notice it, I didn't feel it at all once it was in! looking back now it doesn't seem like it was too bad! it was bearable. It was totally worth it for someone I love - my boyfriend of 2 and a half years. P.s I lost my virginity at 19 :)

So I'm a virgin, but I've had foreplay with my boyfriend. He's fingered me a lot of times, but the last time he fingered me it was quite intense, so I bled a little, it was just a few drops of blood. So did he break my hymen? And if so, when I eventually have sex, does that mean that I will not bleed?

Wow... Some of you guys are really, really, REALLY young. Um... I'm 14. Sure, I masturbate - but this whole young sex thing really is quite shocking.Haha, some of you guys have been penetrated and are questioning the state of your virginity? I'd say that you're no longer a virgin. But then I suppose that it could be classed as a matter of opinion...LOL

I agree, it's kind of disturbing ... :|

i lost my virginty at 18 to a guy who i taught even love or at least like me i was wrong he took it today an left the country the next day an at the same time he did had a girlfriend but i taught it ended an today he is still with her an now i feel used an stupid any man who comes or even tells me they like me in my mind all i thing they want is sex i cant look at myself in the mirror wel am 19 years old now an am trying to move on even though its hard for me to trust some one, there is this guy who was really nice to me an i been with him for a while now any way we had sex over an over again i must addmit it felt good for a while anyway he cheat an got a child with a nother older girl i was hurt preety badly he is 25 years old an every one knew except his mom an i an, i forgive him an now i find it hard to trust him but i have alot of faith in my self an one day i will surely receive my blessings an i thing your viginity is some thing very special so open your eyes an bewise i thing if i still had mind i would be very open minded respect mypride i would worry because after a will the sex becomes dull an if your still young the boy would be still looking for sumthing fresh take my advise if he loves you he would not be waiting to have sex wit you but waiting for you to finish so an have a career so he can marry u an start a family .

I lost my virginity about 7 months ago and i haven't had sex after that because i was a bad experience for me. Am not saying it will be for you. I wasn't really prepared for it and maybe that's why. When my boyfriend started he had to stop a few minutes later because it was so painful and i didn't used to masturbate so that made things worst. I cried and i was even bleeding it was just awful that was my experience yours might be better don't think it will be worst than mine. And make sure that's what you really want to do and chose the person that you do it with wisely so that you wont regret it cause i regret mine..

You can read about the emotions involved if you search Fiona's Tale of Love Sex and Lost Virginity.

Well, actually I lost my viginity last year and I was 13. And It hurt for me. And when my boyfriend was breaking my hymn, I screamed.  I honesty believe it was because i wasnt relaxed( not because i was pressured). I  was nervous because we were in a public place, but i really enjoyed it. After there was a little bit of sorness for about 10min and a little bit of bleeding but it was fine.!! Cant wait to do it again with him!!!!

Me too. It sucks.. or I guess sticks... hehe no. It was god awful and I'm so lonely now afterwards I'm putting it on an anonymous forum.. yay

Hey, Im 17 and lost my virginity earlier this year to my boyfriend. (by the way i have been in a serious relationship with this guy for 3 years.) But it depends on who you are how old you are what you've done to your self or what someone else has done to you and the size of your partners penis. For me though i havnt done alot of sexual things and my boyfriends parts are avrage size and it did not hurt. good luck! :-)

Thank you so much for this post!! I was sexually abused as a child, therefore, I have no real memory of my first sexual encounter. However, I now have a beautiful daughter in college who is 20 years old. She and her first boyfriend broke-up after a year together because neither felt ready for sex. They both are committed to remaining virgins until marriage and the pressure of being together became too much. Now I have some insight into what it feels like to a young woman when she has a first sexual encounter.

Just like the above person, I have also been in a relationship with this guy for 3 years & I LOVEEE HIM so much :) so I decided to lose my virginity to him 1 week ago. I am 17 year old & I always said I was not gonna lose my virginity till marriage; if not that then age 18. But when it happened I just didn't care. It hurt a big when he first went in but after that it was pleasing.. & I didn't bleed or feel sore afterwards. Infact we went for another round. BUT I was left to deal with paranoia of thinking of pregnancy -_- we were protected tho... that is it !