How It Feels To Lose Your Virginity

MinJi over a year ago

So, even though this question is on here from years ago I want to give my opinion because I actuallly lost my virginity 5 days ago and wanted to add some insight due to the fact that I came here looking for answers about what I felt. I want others who come here to be able to see what I experienced and I hope it helps them like it did for me.So, I lost my virginity to my best friend. He was really caring and made sure he was gentle with me and took it pretty slow. And I'll be honest, for me it hurt like hell. But it doesn't for everyone. We didn't use lube, just a condom. And I can say that I definitely want to use lube next time. Not only will it decrease the pain but also lessen the chance of the condom breaking, if you are using one. I didn't bleed at all. For me the pain lasted for a long time during sex. It even made my whole body tingle. Not sting, but tingle, like when your arm or your leg falls asleep. but it eventually went away as the pain went away. But, for me, after the pain went away I didn't feel anything. I wasn't in pain nor was I being pleasured. I can't say if I was doing anything wrong, because it was my first and only time, but from what I have been reading it might take a few times to actually feel good. So, I am counting on that. But also, relaxing is a good idea. Don't be so worried over how much it'll hurt. And of course make sure you are ready to do this. If your not ready, it's only going to be that much worse. Don't do it if you are stressed about it or feel guilty about the idea. Only do it if you are sure it is right for both you and the other person.

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AwkwardlyLostVirginity over a year ago

I lost my virginity at 19.. my boyfriend had Been fingering mea couple times before. Thing is when we first tried, I pushed him off cuz it hurt like oh hell.. I have never inserted anything before and something that thick just wouldn't go in.!! We tried three or four times each time penetrating just a little more until I couldn't take it and made him pull out. One fine day(um ..night I mean) We just enjoyed ourselves making out n stuff and again he tried and it hurt but this time it went i. And ten quite literally Smooth sailing. I guess I was more aroused and wet than normal.... But did anyone have the feeling that they needed to pee?? Cuz I did. And I said that too. Ugghh ruined the moment!!! Haha

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Guest over a year ago

I'm 13 and I lost my virginity yesterday..I know it was a stupid choice and I may regret it in the future but I don't at the moment. It hurts badly at first but once it is in the pain is all gone :)

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newlynonvirgin over a year ago

I just lost my virginity yesterday. I'm 16 years old. For me it hurt a lot, nothing like I've ever felt before. After a little while it doesn't hurt as much. When he took off the condom he said there was a little bit of blood on it which is totally normal. But it's now been over 24 hours and I've been getting heavy bleeding almost like I'm on my period but I know I'm not.

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Guest over a year ago

no your not a virgin. Sometimes blood will not come out because you might have burst your hymen earlier (masterbating, exercising, etc.) And don't worry itching is completely normal hope this helps

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Kiayahharris over a year ago

I actually lost mines 5 days ago and the pain was unbelievable . It all depends on you and guy . My boyfriend private area was big and it hurt like HELL . I was just wait until YOUR COMPLETELY ready and comfortable . Trust me it's Worth The Wait .

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Guest over a year ago

I just lost my virginity today actually and it was really painful. When he first put it in I immediately felt pain & pressure. As you go on it hurts less though. I am very sore & Ive been a little nauseous but I looked it up & I'm pretty sure its just anxiety.

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Guest over a year ago

i lost mine couple of days ago and i did not feel any pain... Well atleast not that i remember when i first dated my boyfriend, i have never masturbated or anything so when he first fingered me it was pretty weird haha and when he would try to use 2 fingers, thats when the pain came in after few months of dating, he tried putting it in but that hurt like CRAZY so i stopped it as soon as the tip went it (Maybe that was in april/may) i was so tight so he jus tried fingering me so i would somewhat get used to it and that my vagina wouldnt be so tight And then the other day(now in june)he was fingering me and tried with 2 fingers.. It hurt alittle but it felt good so he just kept going And i guess he tried with 3(i did not know until after, when he told me) and it was just great and then he put it in... I did not feel any pain what so ever . Just pleasure So i would like to say fingering may help aand being wet as well the more pleasure you feel, more relaxed your body will be Oh and im 18

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Guest over a year ago

Uh, im 14 and i plan on losing my virginty on Thursday, tbh, im kinda scared, like what if it hurts...alot? And he doesn't want any blood, so he wants me to masterbate the night before just to make sure that my "cherry is popped" but, what if i do and i think my hymen breaks but it really doesn't? Cause he said and i quote "i dont want to c any blood, i think its gross" im scared

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ImOnlyHuman over a year ago

I just lost my virginity . I'm 17 and it was to a guy I really like . You need to know what type of person you are , for me , my vagina is unusually small so it took me 5 different times but I finally lost it today . I was nervous and tense which made it a little uncomfortable , but if you are relaxed and you have the RIGHT person it will hurt for maybe no more than 15-20 minutes , after he is in , you're good to go , but as I have seen stated , it did sting a little when I used the bathroom afterwards but that won't last more than 5 minutes , I didn't bleed for my first time , but if you do it's always a great idea to shower afterwards :) good luck !

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4realdeals over a year ago

So I'm 24 years old and I just had sex for the first time with a friend's with benefits person. I wanted to have sex because I really wanted to know how it felt. But it felt odd and I felt empty. The pain was killing me and eating away the strands of emotions I had. For a moment my vagina felt numb and I felt a lot of pressure on my lower stomach. I asked if it was in and he said it was. The feeling was so overwhelming that I sort of freaked out on my way home. I didn't bleed, but I tasted blood. Over all, I don't regret it. I actually feel relieved that I did the deed. But I feel that I should wait for a very special guy. Believe me, if your thinking of having sex, just wait. Its not what is cracked up to be.

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Sanner215 over a year ago

Watch a video on it with your boyfriend and tell what you want him to do or use a dildo

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Guest over a year ago

it hurts tbh-- i just lost mine yesterday and im 14. he had fingered me and we decided we were ready. it was like a dull numbing pain that some how felt amazing. although i wont lie it was a little awk at first but theres plenty of time to keep trying. so it felt great, had a numbing pain and i didnt even think about my cherry popping till i realised i was bleeding ( barely any blood btws for me anyway) until afterwards. just do it with someone you love & go easy

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Guest over a year ago

tell hime to push it well ! it helps .

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Guest over a year ago

You're 14? You shouldn't be losing your virginity not even drinking. Smh.

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