How It Feels To Lose Your Virginity

Guest over a year ago

well im 15 and lost mine at 14 and i gotta say make sure u are ready i clearly wasnt and it hurt alot my bf at the time didnt slow or wait he just shoved it in and well it hurt like a b***h and i bleed alot so just make sure your ready

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Curious98 over a year ago

Ok... Well I'm still a virgin, I tried losing it before, but the pain was too overwhelming.... Probably because of the guy or whatever... As you saw before, the amount of pain you will feel I cannot explain because it it different to everyone. What I can say though, use a condom correctly every time, use lots of lube, and if it's not the right guy... WAIT!!!!

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Duh didn't over a year ago

I literally lost my virginity 10 mins. Ago and yes it hurt but I didn't let him know which is the worst thing to do. Let him know if it hurts he should understand. And I had already broke my hymen and it still hurted and there was a little bit of blood but its only because we didn't use lube he had a condom though. But I was forced to do it. And no that does not mean I got raped... And... Well... Idk I know some girls can't walk right after, like me, I can barley walk

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flygal89 over a year ago

It depends on the person. My sisters always said it hurt like hell, then a friend told me it didnt hurt at all. When i finally lost mine, it was just uncomfortable.. just be sure you are ready to lose and take the necessary precautions

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Guest over a year ago

yeah ive heard people say that the more active you are the less it hurts or whatever but i cant tell you now it doesnt work like that.
ive been a gymnast almost my whole life and youd think that it wouldve stretched it out a bit, and even though the guy i lost it to had a massive penis, i was still tight as f**k

My advice- if youre ready, go for it, but like expect at least a little pain and not to enjoy it as much as your man, but it gets better you just need time and to do it more

also, some girls think its gonna be really special to loose their virginity, but its not generally. like, youre laying on a bed in pain... hahaha but good luck anyway gorgeous xx

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Guest over a year ago

it depends on how you take pain. Today me and my boyfriend decided to take the next step and have sex. Me and hi m have been together for about 1 year and 6 months. it does hurt when he puts it in. At first it didn't hurt because he didnn't put it all in I felt a burning and not really pain. (mind you that he fingered me first so that took away some of the pain ) But if he fingers you before , then it makes a big difference ! (: I didn't bleed at all , also . so yeah o;

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Guest over a year ago

Well I'm a virgin and I always said I was gonna wait until I was married but now that I'm going through puberty and I just recently started my period my hormones have been acting up I've been getting turned on when I see certain things boys and even girls plus I've been masturbating...I know I'm ashamed and embarrassed.I doubt good would be ok with that. I feel like I can't wait any longer but I don't wanna b fast or known as a "w****" or the girl who lost her virginity at 12... any advice?

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tja over a year ago

I lost mines today and it hurt even though he did put it in inch by inch. I thought he had it in all the way but as soon as I thought the pain was over he pushed it as far as it could go. Then he started going fast but after awhile it stopped hurting. Afterwards he made me ride n I had no I ldea what I was doing. Anyway it hurt the most when he pushed in all the way.....I could feel it in my stomach PS. Yes we used a condom

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72catfuture over a year ago

Hey I'm 15, and I just lost mine to my boyfriend of 17, and he is a considerably large and honestly, when it happens it hurts like a b***h for maybe 5-10 minutes but after that you start to feel better. I'm a bit sore in my pelvic area but I've heard it's normal. Just make sure it's with someone you really love, not just some kind of a hook up. Use protection la de da :)

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Guest over a year ago

I lost mine last night and i swear the guy shoved his f*****g arm in my vagina . it hurt but at the same time it was kind of good. i have pain this morning its just really tender is that normal?

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InkNQuill over a year ago

Everyone's first time is different (although there are similarties). Some bleed, others don't.. It may be awkward for a bit and it will help to be lubricated. Water-base lube you can by or with the guy your with start by sensually touching each other. Turn eath other on so you get into it and feel a bit more relaxed.

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InkNQuill over a year ago

You should really tell your boyfriend, because if your still with him and you decide to be sexually active with him. He won't know and may be rougher than you'd like. Communication, helps make a great relationship(:

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Clarie22345 over a year ago

Hi, I lost my virginity 2 days ago. It didn't hurt. I do a lot of masturbating. I even use dildos. So I knew it wasn't going to hurt to terribly but it was different not knowing how fast he was going to go or what his next move might have been. I'm planning on doing it again. We use protection and were aware of all of the procautions. I'm 14 and I think I should have waited till at least 18 but it was nice to feel the difference between dildos and an actual penis. I LOVE my boyfriend, I see myself with him for a while now. I had NO doubts about sex. So I had fun and enjoyed it. Good luck

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leslie over a year ago

hi tja- I just lost mine 2 weeks ago , he is 25 and I am 18 we are engaged to be married in 6 months. he was pressing me to do it and I finally gave in it hurt so bad when his penis was pressing against my hymen when it broke there was a very sharp pain and I could feel him going all of the way inside of me. while I was not on any kind of birth control I did not get pregnant although I didn't get on birth control until my mother carried me to the doctor about 3 weeks before we got married.

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kelly over a year ago

dear jujulia- I lost mine about 5 months ago. it hurt very bad when his penis broke through my hymen.and I did bleed quite a bit afterwards in fact for 2 days. but after my vagina got stretched sex started to feel very good to me.

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