How It Feels To Lose Your Virginity

It hurts really bad. Probably the worst thing I've ever felt, but it was also good because it was with someone i loved. So if you do plan on losing it, make sure its with someone you truly love and that truly loves and cares about you. Make sure he goes with what you want and how you want it because after all he wont be the one in pain. But i hope everything goes smooth when you do decide on losing it.

am 20 yearz old nd my bf wnt 2 hv a sex 4 me bt am scard when iwth him wd do all the things kic ,touch bt when it come 2 sleeping wth him am scared what should i do coz the time is ryt 4 us 2 do sex inid tips

Just lost my virginity last weekend, and it wasnt planned. What I can tell you is that it was my decision, my boyfriend was very adamant about making sure I didn't feel pressured (I didn't). He's a little bigger than average but not huge. We started with fingering then moved to oral. I asked him if he could try  "just the tip" and after telling him [again] that I didn't feel pressured into it he got a condom and lube. Slowly he layed down on me and guided his tip in. HOLY HELL did it hurt. But he stayed whered he was and the pain faded, so I asked him to go in a little more. Again, a lot of pain. It continued like that until he was close to all the way in and when he finally got there, he stayed in until the pain almost completely went away. He then (with my okay) started pumping and eventually I DID orgasm the same time he did. For the record, I'm 22, he's 26. The only trouble I'm going to have now is going without him during his upcoming deployment :( lol But in all seriousness, I was told the pain wouldn't be that bad, and it was but it went away. I was always told it was overrated, but I think that as long as you know you're respected enough (and respect yourself enough!) and TAKE YOUR TIME, it will all be worth it! I don't plan on having sex with anyone else (we've got marriage on the mind).

Well I suggest you and your partner should watch a porn first for the girl to get turned on and wet, Its better than way. The girl vagina expands that way and less pain,Trust me. Also make sure you're comfortable.Do small things first like fingering,If fingering is unbearable pain then you should wait.

I've heard that sometimes after penative sex you can start your period, due to your hormones being over active and stimulating your body. I may be wrong but you could look into that! Hope it helps) xo

id say if you dont feel ready to have sex it's your choice and dont feel presured into having sex because its totally your body and your decision!

i just recetly lost my virginity and it was not as bad as people made it out to be. my friend exagerated the pain and i guess depending on your pain tolerance it will be different but the pain of sex isnt something you should be terrified of, it goes away after a few minutes.

my advice would be make sure its really lubricated down there and make sure you do foreplay befofre you have sex.(it will make it slide in easier and less painfully). if you dont already, try masterbating and stretching your vagina with one finger at a time.

i personally didnt bleed or feel the pop of my hymen but all girls are different and some girls bleed and some girls dont. 

i cant stress enough how imporant it is to make sure youre with someone who cares about you. make sure he goes slow and listens to what you say. dont feel the need to continue on with it if it hurts too much, he should respect your decisions. the first time you try doesnt have to be the first time you fully have sex, if it doesnt feel right you can stop and just continue preparing yourself and getting more comfortable with it for the next time. be in a comfortable setting and relax your body.

for the pain part, foreplay and trying to stretch it abit helps A LOT and so does making sure youre really wet. go slowly. the first couple inches wont hurt but he deeper he goes the more it will sting. just go slow and after a couple minutes of slow thrusts youll be able to get it in without pain, it will just be discomfort but nothing that makes you do a funny face ad nothing you cant handle. the first few time you will have this discomfort, but it goes away and starts to feel great. even if its your first time having sex or your 1000th time, dont forget foreplay! it makes the whole process easier.

good luck!

Well. It didn't really hurt because Ive discovered. I honestly think it's all about what you've done to yourself and how big that the guys penis is.

Well I am 14and I lost my virginty yesterday to my boyfriend and it hurt quite a bit and then after that i was a bit sore and noticed that i had been walking home and found a lot of blood in my underwear.... It was really heavy and I know it wasn't my period. My bf used a condom and pulled out for reassurance!!! Idk what's causing the blood but it does happen all night and then you see spotting and that's the stage im currently at but however to answer your question it does hurt quite a bit and then is feels very sore to sit and walk. Hope I helped

I don't know if you have lost it yet buy you can break your hymen by simply putting a tampon in sometimes.

I'm a female and it hurt really bad. I'm 15 and I sitll haven't lost it today is January 11, 2015. And its 10:51. I snuck outta my house to see my boyfriend and we tried but it hurt to bad, I'm really sore and it hurt so I tolled him to stop.

Okay I lost my virginity a week ago today ! Well Sunday. I'm 17, I think it only hurt when he first stuck it in. My boyfriend is big , (at least I think so) so it was like a Woah feeling when he stuck it in. The pain was bearable . After a few strokes you get use to it . Make sure to kiss , it keeps your mind off of it . And if it hurts to much don't mind stopping ! It's your body love . Lose your vCard to a special guy though.

Hi. I've just lost my virginity and it hurt so bad that I started crying and I bit my hand so hard it's left a mark... I felt nothing after I done it he kept apologising but I just got my coat and left. Now I don't know what to do, I thought I would get attached but it's quite the opposite.... It really hurt and that saying something because I am really tolerant to pain but this killed :( please be careful. :)

Well I'm losing mine tomorrow and I'm really nerves . Because he's a virgin to . By the way I'm 14 . But my and my bf been together since we where 10. Well we weren't really together then because we were 10 but any ways can some one tell me what I am supposed to do when we are having sex.?

The pain is a kinda burning pain due to the stretching, that is painful but after he is in and thrust a couple of times, its great. You will be fine

Losing mine didn't really hurt