Yes, you are right. Safe yourself for the real man who cares, and want to spend your life with. It hurts so very bad to love someone and look forward to that special girl and find this out. ...I know it happened to Me, and I feel cheated, that he took her special gift tha should have been mine.i wasn't that popular in school and the girls didn't go for me much, so I was a traditionalist, my mom and raised me to not use women like that. So I was a Virginia at 19 yes old when I met my now wife of 38 years and 3 kids later. I know some will make fun of me for feeling this way, but it was the way i was raised,, and was rhe ugly duckling.. PLEASE WAIT AND SAVE WHAT GOD HASE GIVIN you for that o ne person!! Dont ruin his life too.....
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That sense of feeling cheated is really unnecessary.
This thing about "saving" oneself is really not practical. We were created, wired and designed to have sex. We humans have attached a Moral tag to our sexuality. This is so artificial. Then we feel deprived or cheated, like you are feeling right now, because your wife wasnt a virgin for you. That is your problem and issue. Deal with it not suggest ALL girls should remain virgins.
God gave us our sexuality - a biological function. There was nothing called marriage until humans designed that stupid artificial union and contract called marriage which these days fails 60% of the time.
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It doesnt hurt actually. If the guy knows what he is doing, involves you in a lot of foreplay and performs oral sex on you and if he makes you orgasm just prior to penetration for which he uses lube, IT DOESNT AND WONT HURT!! Patience, time, plenty of foreplay and oral sex and use lots and lots of lube.
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Hi im Alec and Im not in a little bit of pain im in a hella lot of pain s-so I went to the bathroom after doing a little sum with my boyfriend when I came back from the bathroom I saw there was something red on my bed sheet so I moved it over and I thought it was marker turns out it wasn't marker and I accidentally took my own virginity...and im hurting so bad
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Okay so I was reading y’all’s reply virgins if You want it not to hurt so much I would try getting fingered before going in and try putting it in from the side my partner put 4 fingers in and it didn’t even hurt and I was scared cause I thought losing my virginity was going to hurt but when he put it in from the side it didn’t we tried other positions and it hurt really bad but the side didn’t at all and also because I got fingered with 4 fingers before and I didn’t know so maybe try that also don’t forget we are all different people so it’s different for everyone.
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Okay so I was reading y’all’s reply virgins if You want it not to hurt so much I would try getting fingered before going in and try putting it in from the side my partner put 4 fingers in and it didn’t even hurt and I was scared cause I thought losing my virginity was going to hurt but when he put it in from the side it didn’t we tried other positions and it hurt really bad but the side didn’t at all and also because I got fingered with 4 fingers before and I didn’t know so maybe try that also don’t forget we are all different people so it’s different for everyone.
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Okay so I was reading y’all’s reply virgins if You want it not to hurt so much I would try getting fingered before going in and try putting it in from the side my partner put 4 fingers in and it didn’t even hurt and I was scared cause I thought losing my virginity was going to hurt but when he put it in from the side it didn’t we tried other positions and it hurt really bad but the side didn’t at all and also because I got fingered with 4 fingers before and I didn’t know so maybe try that also don’t forget we are all different people so it’s different for everyone.
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Okay so I was reading y’all’s reply virgins if You want it not to hurt so much I would try getting fingered before going in and try putting it in from the side my partner put 4 fingers in and it didn’t even hurt and I was scared cause I thought losing my virginity was going to hurt but when he put it in from the side it didn’t we tried other positions and it hurt really bad but the side didn’t at all and also because I got fingered with 4 fingers before and I didn’t know so maybe try that also don’t forget we are all different people so it’s different for everyone.
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