I’m a 17 year old virgin and I am scared of having sex for the first time in case the partner doesn’t know I haven’t broken my hymen does it hurt and should I tell him when I get to it?
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I went to the doctor at age 13 cuz I hadn't started my period and they were worried so the doctor stuck a tube up me and broke my hymen. It hurt really bad and I was really scared being told by my mom I was being a baby and that it didn't hurt that bad. I know it's not good to break it early but sometime you can't help but it happen. Also tampons break it. Not just sex and sh*t.
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Oh my Gosh! I'm sorry but that first part is just ridiculous. Assuming that eventually, she will have sex, her hymen WILL break. If she wants to do it now, so that she can masturbate, I'm sure that he will understand. But he will love her no matter what, not that it even matters what HE thinks. At least she'll get the not so pleasant pain out of the way so that when she loses her virginity for real, it will be a great experience FOR HER because that's what matters.
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I'm 13 too. I want to break my hymen as well just so nothing goes awkward on my first time. But I still feel pleasure fingering my self when my hymen is there
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I actually don't think it's your child, or even your life and you probably don't have anything to do in her life, so in all actuality, you shouldn't give her any age limit at all! Your right, it's not a race, but I have friends who had kids when they were around her age (13, and 12) So you shouldn't be giving a girl any age limit at all. It is her life, not yours
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Omg thank you I’ve been waitin in someone to say it, I was just reading through these bc I didn’t know what a hymen was.
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I know this was over a year ago but i'm going to comment anyways lmao. Honestly, I think you shouldn't care what guys will think if you break your hymen. It's your body and you can do whatever you want with it. Not having an intact hymen doesn't mean you're not a virgin either, you can break it by riding a bike, or doing sports, or putting in a tampon even. And I totally get why you want to break you're hymen. I feel like I would want to so it's less pain when you lose your virginity, but it's your choice. remember virginity doesn't mean breaking you're hymen, it doesn't have a specific definition. It can mean WHATEVER YOU WANT IT TO MEAN!
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also some girls are born with an already very stretchy hymen, so it will appear "broken." a lot of times you can't tell if someone's a virgin because they're hymen is "broken." just so if any people see this they can here both sides
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