husband not into vag after watching anal ??

Okay so heres the Deal, my hubby and I had a great sex life.. In the biggining we started off as an affair. We dated yrs ago remarried but for me, I was still always was completely in love with him. My hubby at the time constantly cheated and treadted me like c**p.... his marriage was alspo going sour the affair lasted for a year and the sex was amazing.... after the yr was up we decided that we wanted to be together, we moved in together and blended our fa ilies with the children as smoothly as we possibly could. Things were going great.. several months into it, I look on his phone and notice his got all sorts of porn sites on this phone that "he forgot to delete" alot being anal or ATM... now since thenhe also started taking oxycodone for pain which was prescribed to him only 5-10mg a day.... very rarely can he get it "up" during vag... or even a bj but if its anal he is hard as a rock.... i dont mind and actuslly kind of enjoy but im is this just a fetish or the pills (but if it was the pills he prob wouldnt be able to get it up at all)... or something more? Affair? Gay? Etc..... ahh ive got so much on my mind!

Your husband's website viewing has fogged his perspective of you with regards to sexual relationships. So many websites materialize the woman, her attractiveness, her most precious assets that a man (who is most sensitive to what he sees) looses the beauty of his partner's heart and body to shrink his sexuality to one and only one thing.

He needs help because it will only get worse. You also will need it for direction for yourself since your life is complicated by these children.

Also, remember that since in his mind you are not his first woman, other beds are psychologically present. That complicates things a lot for both of you.

With help you will need discuss mutual responsibilities and organize your intimate life. The computer will have to go, I am afraid. Difficult in house full of kids.