Husband unhappy about planned pregnancy

Hi everyone,

I wanted to see if someone may have experienced the same issues and could share the outcome.

We have been married since 8 years and have a beautiful 5 year old daughter. My husband loves her more than anything. 2 years after my daughter was born I wanted a second child, (we agreed before we got married that we would have 2-3 kids) my husband was not ready..this where the struggles began. He said he maybe ready in a year or so. So I waited and discussed with him again after a year had passed, he said he would be ready to try at the end of the year and so we did. We got pregnant right away and he was anything but pleased, even asking me for an abortion. I miscarried this baby at 12 weeks. We worked through our issues but I was still longing for a second child.
In the beginning of this year he finally said he was ready to have another baby. We got pregnant 4 month later and he seemed happy at first. After about 3 month into the pregnancy he told me the real reason he said he wanted to try again was that he felt that I may leave him if we don't have an other child and he couldn't live with the thought that our daughter may have a half brother/sister. I'm now 7 month pregnant and he still struggles with the thought of having another child. It has been really hard on me since I want to be excited and happy but can't, because he now regrets that we are having another baby. I feel he is so selfish for putting me through this again, especially when he was the one asking to try to conceive again. I hope and pray he will be happy and love our son when he is born. Has anyone experienced something similar? How did it turn out?

Thank you!!