A doctor has cut my hymen but I still can't have sex and it still hurts so much, and my husband can't get in
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The PC muscles (Pubococcygeus muscle) does not extend far into the vagina. So "feeling a lot of space after a certain point" does not really mean anything. Your vagina itself does not act as a strong muscle, it's the PC muscle and that wraps around it like a hammock. In many women it's actually fairly small, perhaps the size of a small finger, though if a person has vaginismus the muscle (like any muscle that is used a lot (imagine a bodybuilder) it can get larger. Here's a possible solution:
The hymen is always between 5mm and 20 millimeters from the opening of the vagina. Therefore if you have a tough thick hymen you will be able to see it with a mirror--so look. If however your tightness extends more than an inch, then you are not feeling a hymen you are feeling the PC muscle.
The hymen is always between 5mm and 20 millimeters from the opening of the vagina. Therefore if you have a tough thick hymen you will be able to see it with a mirror--so look. If however your tightness extends more than an inch, then you are not feeling a hymen you are feeling the PC muscle.
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When I first startes having sex I had the same problem. It wasn't actually caused by the Hymen, in fact by the time you have your period your hymen is at least somewhat deteriorated (to let blood out).
Sometimes your muscles down there are just too tight, which could be for many reasons such as stress. First of all you need to relax and get over any anxietys you have about having sex. If you were like me and still too tight, you need to losen the muscles slowly.
Relax and put one finger in at a time. Tighten up as much as you can with out causing any pain, you might be a little uncomfortable. I'd suggest using some type of lube. Hold that for about 5-7 seconds, relax and repeat. After doing it a few times add more fingers or use a slightly larger object (make sure it's safe to put in there!).
I did this on and off once a day for about 3 weeks. I went from not being able to use tampons to useing 3 fingers when fully relaxed!
Sometimes your muscles down there are just too tight, which could be for many reasons such as stress. First of all you need to relax and get over any anxietys you have about having sex. If you were like me and still too tight, you need to losen the muscles slowly.
Relax and put one finger in at a time. Tighten up as much as you can with out causing any pain, you might be a little uncomfortable. I'd suggest using some type of lube. Hold that for about 5-7 seconds, relax and repeat. After doing it a few times add more fingers or use a slightly larger object (make sure it's safe to put in there!).
I did this on and off once a day for about 3 weeks. I went from not being able to use tampons to useing 3 fingers when fully relaxed!
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Hi.
Well I have a problem here please help.
He tried breaking my virginity but I was too scared to continue so I stopped him ,I felt his penis but nothing broke the problem now is that I have stomach grumbles and feels like something's moving in my womb. Am I pregnant?
Well I have a problem here please help.
He tried breaking my virginity but I was too scared to continue so I stopped him ,I felt his penis but nothing broke the problem now is that I have stomach grumbles and feels like something's moving in my womb. Am I pregnant?
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Sounds like your hymen (membrane) is thick. Next time try putting a pillow under your but to elevate your pelvis up. Knees pulled back and legs spread. When he starts to penetrate you it will be easier for his penis to rupture your hymen. It may hurt a little but should get better with time.
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