I am pregnant but I am not quite sure who the father is of my unborn child.

The one that calculates conception on July 3rd was from baby-two-see. There was another one I used which allows me to put in a 26/27 day cycle calculated my ovulating starting on July 1, but my fertility days from the 5th - 10th of July. I cannot say when my periods were this year because I did a job move which was completely stressful and stopped keeping track after March until last month. I have taken a pregnancy test about 3 days ago after being a day late for my period. I haven't seen my OB yet. I made my appointment but the earliest I can be seen is Aug.

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I assume you had a positive result from the test.

To get pregnant from sex on 8th July, you would have to have ovulated no earlier than 7th (allowing for the egg to have survived a couple of days). That means that your period would not have been due until 21st (today). I would then be surprised that a home test on 18th were positive. But that would also mean that this cycle was a week longer than usual.

Do you have your December to March period start dates?

Did you have a period every month from March to June?

Also have you had any other sexual activity? Sperm can get into your vagina manually as well.

Yes I had 3 positive tests. My period was due on the 15th of June. My periods typically come 3-4 days earlier in date from the previous month, and 1 day sooner than the expected date on my Period Calendar. My ovulation time is approx right before I start my period, about 3-6 days prior. At that time I get really turned on or really sluggish and my breast are tender which started happening around the 6th of July. Yes I did have a period every month from March to June. And no I have not had any other sexual activity. Before June 26, I had not had Sex with anyone since Dec 2015 when I was with my boyfriend.

"My period was due on the 15th of June" I think you mean 15th July.

"My ovulation time is approx right before I start my period, about 3-6 days prior" That is a very short luteal phase! If you are absolutely certain that you ovulated around 6th July, then it is possible you got pregnant from 8th July sex. 6 days is hardly enough for producing hCG, let alone 3 days! You need to mention this to your Gynae/Obs as it could have implications on carrying full term.

Regarding period dates, I was hoping I could see the patter by knowing the Dec-Mar start dates.

I'm 19 years old, I slept with this guy when me and my partner split up on the 2-3rd April and then the day after I got back In a relationship with my partner and had sex with him which was the 4th April I'm now 14 weeks and I went for my scan on the 8th July which told me I was 12 weeks on that day I can't remember my last period as I had contraception which messed with my periods I just need a lot of help because I am really worried

What date have you been given for the birth?

Hello I know this post is old but I'm in the same boat, did you ever find out

The post was over 9 years ago, and I don't think victoria238317271 is a member now.
If you want some help, I think you will have to ask a specific question with your own details.

I need help !! My last period was on May 25th -29th 2016 me and my boyfriend had sex on the 4th of June he came inside of me sperm does stay in your body 3to 5 days .then I had sex with my ex 5th 7th & 8th he pulled out for sure now my doctor is telling me I concevied on the 8th of June I'm 2month pregnant I need help ladies on knowing who's the father of my baby please I NEED HELP I'm just worried and kinda stressed because I love my boyfriend

Hi Khole

Doctors often work from the LMP start date as that is the only verifiable event in the menstrual cycle. On the assumption of a typical 28-day cycle, ovulation would take place on Cycle Day 15. In your case this would be 8th June. Maybe this is how your doctor assessed the conception date. However, if your cycle were 30 days, then ovulation would probably take place on Cycle Day 17. In your case this would be 10th June. But you have not said how long your cycle is.

On the basis of your doctor's date, each of your dates would have been fertile days. The earliest release would have reached your fallopian tubes first, and most likely (if healthy) one of them would have been first to meet the egg released on ovulation day. So on the balance of probability your boyfriend seems the most likely father.

However, I am concerned that you say you love your boyfriend, but nevertheless you had sex with your ex 3 times.

I hope this helps.

Take Care.

Hey thanks for replying needed that but to be honest I'm not sure if I'm 28 days cycle or less or more in pretty sure I'm 28 days & yes I do love my boyfriend but at the time we was sperated & I was just and angry women at the time I really appreciate ur help

Pleased to help.
If you have the period start dates for this year, it would help determine your cycle.
Have you considered talking to your boyfriend about your anger during your separation, what happened with your ex, and asking for his forgiveness?

I have this app every time my period is about to come it always land on the day it tells me which is 28 days from when I started the app and no I haven't talk to my boyfriend about it I'm scared :(

On the basis of a 28-day cycle, then I would think that your boyfriend is the most likely father. Why are you so scared? Do you want to talk about it?

Because all I can think about is who is the father I really appreciate ur help I'm trying not to stress I had an attack the other night ,I also have gallbladder stones but I'm not trying to stress to much just because I don't want nothing happening to my baby