Hello! Wow cant believe that I wrote this so long ago!! I'm so sorry for not replying to anyone for so long.
Well I am very very proud to say that the same boy and myself married last year and we are now looking at starting to expand our family.
Thinking back to when we were younger I did suffer with anxiety and the biggest help was being so open with my then boyfriend. My husband is gorgeous and is nothing but a supportive figure in our relationship!
I hope that you all find happiness and that through determination you are able to fight this silly feeling :)
Xxx
Well I am very very proud to say that the same boy and myself married last year and we are now looking at starting to expand our family.
Thinking back to when we were younger I did suffer with anxiety and the biggest help was being so open with my then boyfriend. My husband is gorgeous and is nothing but a supportive figure in our relationship!
I hope that you all find happiness and that through determination you are able to fight this silly feeling :)
Xxx
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Hello.. I have been having this for about a month now. I randomly woke up one day sick and I felt nothing for my bf and anything that reminded me of him made me sick and almost throw up. I couldn’t eat.. nothing made me happy. I was just dead.. it’s really confusing because the day before it happened we were perfectly fine. We went to the gym and had a nice day. And ever since that im not ok with his touch.. I can’t say I love you sometimes and thinking about us makes me sick.. it’s also hard because I want things to go back how it was.. for 4 days it was getting better but now it’s back. And it’s like I feel sick when I think about our future and sometimes the way he texts me differently makes me sick bc it’s changed, ik he’s more comfortable but it feels friend ish. But he’s still helping me. Trying to support me through this.. but it’s killing me. And idk how to make it go away and i just wanna love him how I used to. And I want to feel his love.. when he compliments me I feel nothing. Im lost.. and even little gifts he gives me I can’t feel happy. But ik if we broke up I’d die and ik I could never love someone as I did with him. Can someone help me please or give me tips?..
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Health Hero
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Hi, guest.
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this. Your emotional and physical reactions are intense, and it sounds like a confusing and difficult experience. It's crucial to consider the following points and seek professional assistance:
Seek Professional Help: If you have not already, it's essential to consult with a mental health professional, such as a therapist or psychiatrist. The abrupt onset and severity of your feelings suggest something deeper may be occurring that requires professional insight.
Physical Causes: Sometimes, physical health problems can lead to emotional or psychological symptoms. It's worth seeing a doctor to rule out any medical conditions that might be contributing to how you're feeling.
Communicate: While it sounds like your boyfriend is trying to be supportive, open communication is crucial. Let him know how you feel, that you appreciate his support, but that you're also seeking professional help to understand what's happening.
Avoid Making Hasty Decisions: During this period of uncertainty, try not to make any hasty decisions regarding your relationship. It's essential first to understand the root of your feelings.
Remember Self-Care: It's crucial, especially during challenging times, to take care of yourself. This might mean finding activities that help ground you or seeking out supportive friends or family.
Crisis Hotlines: If you ever feel you're in crisis or need immediate assistance, please contact a local mental health crisis hotline or seek emergency care. They are trained to provide support during challenging times.
Lastly, the way you're feeling now, though intense and distressing, does not mean it will be permanent. With the right support, understanding, and care, many people navigate through challenging emotional periods and find clarity and relief. It's essential to seek the assistance and tools you need to navigate this period.
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this. Your emotional and physical reactions are intense, and it sounds like a confusing and difficult experience. It's crucial to consider the following points and seek professional assistance:
Seek Professional Help: If you have not already, it's essential to consult with a mental health professional, such as a therapist or psychiatrist. The abrupt onset and severity of your feelings suggest something deeper may be occurring that requires professional insight.
Physical Causes: Sometimes, physical health problems can lead to emotional or psychological symptoms. It's worth seeing a doctor to rule out any medical conditions that might be contributing to how you're feeling.
Communicate: While it sounds like your boyfriend is trying to be supportive, open communication is crucial. Let him know how you feel, that you appreciate his support, but that you're also seeking professional help to understand what's happening.
Avoid Making Hasty Decisions: During this period of uncertainty, try not to make any hasty decisions regarding your relationship. It's essential first to understand the root of your feelings.
Remember Self-Care: It's crucial, especially during challenging times, to take care of yourself. This might mean finding activities that help ground you or seeking out supportive friends or family.
Crisis Hotlines: If you ever feel you're in crisis or need immediate assistance, please contact a local mental health crisis hotline or seek emergency care. They are trained to provide support during challenging times.
Lastly, the way you're feeling now, though intense and distressing, does not mean it will be permanent. With the right support, understanding, and care, many people navigate through challenging emotional periods and find clarity and relief. It's essential to seek the assistance and tools you need to navigate this period.
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