I have a bowel movement 2-3 times in a day past 15 years

Hi,

I have a bowel movement 2-3 times in a day past 15 years(as i remember from childhood onwards) and genearal health issues reported till now and no weight loss.

I took some medicines under physican guidlines and consulted 2-3 doctors, but there is no use, my problem is not solved.

I am 26 years old with 80 KG weight, now i am going to marry, I don't know how to manage with my wife?

and i am software engineer, its v v v difficult to go Bowel movement in office.

I am fearing about my life to manage with having Bowel movement 2-3 times in day.

Is this any disease? if not, how other people managing their life in offices or work stations.

I appreaciate if someone give some points/tips to manage life or any 

approch to redue my Bowel movement.

Regards,

Reddy