hi,, i got married 2 moths back, since then v had difficulty in having sex. i have got this fear, which i cnt explain, at the time of penetration. and i move my hip. my husband tried fingering and it dint workout and it was very very painful.
i guess there is too much anxiety related to sex.its more mental than physical. try to get over that. try to make tht more natural and sensous. you can try creating a romantic envt and let yourself flow with the flow of emotions.