I need to know how to get an abortion without parents knowing

Where do you live?  What country, etc?  How old are you?

Laws vary greately.

I'm 16 girlfriend is 14 I pulled out was only In for 5 seconds but she feels like she I'd pregnant we live in Virginia

We really need help asap

Wonton, she may NOT be pregnant. She's probably scared from having sex and thinks she's pregnant. Look at it this way, how does she "feel like she I'd (is) pregnant" if she has NEVER been pregnant before?

Lots of people get very anxious the first few times they have sex. The odds of pregnancy are about 1 in 5, when everything is "perfect."

VA requires parental consent. Use a condom. You might also consider that it may be illegal for you to have sex with her at 14. She can't legally consent even by saying "yes." It's statutory rape.

If it's been more than two weeks OR if her period is late then have her take a home test.  She MUST use her wake up pee for the best accuracy.

Good luck.