I am a 17 year old female and I just learned how to fully reach an orgasm with the jet stream on my shower head. I focus it mainly on my clit and use a brush for penetration. I can cum in about a minute. Note: I make sure the water isn't coming too hard or anything, just hard enough to where it feels good.
But, here's the problem...I'm trying to move away from that method because I want to be able to orgasm without the need of a shower head and I really want to do it during sex. I try it with my fingers but it just doesn't work. I have found out though, that about 30 seconds after I stop touching it my p***y starts to throb. But, still don't orgasm. I don't know what to do...I just want to be able to not rely on a method that may take away my orgasms when I'm with my boyfriend.
Help?
Dont worry..Ya..better you gt out of it..hm..try watching porn online and reaching an orgasm..that wil make you mentally get used to it....i m sure it will help!It s all in mindset!:)Good luck!
Did you find any solutions to this problems? I have the same issue. I've stopped the shower thing all together but is that enough? Can you now orgasm healthily?
Yo divi she's too young ou have to b 18
dear
do you mean that your p***y is so tight , so that you can not insert big things inside it>?
thats great and enjoyable for a boy/guy so that he needs a lot of efforts in f*****g and opening your hole hard and difficult.
i suppose you have to start with small tingy nice pretty short things inside your c**t.
then lisstle by little try to WIDEN it by using vegetables like cucumbers, cabbages and then you can use yur hair styler
even if yo are virgin you can use them around the hole and not deep inside your p***y
best wishes