If anyone is out there that could offer me advice or help me out, it would be greatly appreciated.
Heres what happend.
I am 18, and I threw a party at my house. by the time everyone left it was just me and the girl of my dreams. the girl I wanted for so long. Despite the fact that she had some history with my friend (as in had sex with him but they were not in a relationship at that point) I decided to go for it anyway and we wound up making out and doing some foreplay.
She takes her clothes off, Nothing
She tried giving me head, Nothing
I try kissing her and doing vairous things with her breasts, Nothing
No erection at all. Ive been doing research on the internet and discussing the problem with some mentors. they tell me that all of these things may or may not have had an effect on my penis
1. It was my first time ever with a girl, and she was a girl I had had a crush on forever, and because of this I basically mind screwed myself with anxiety
2. It was very late at night/morning (4am)
3. indulgince of alchoholic beverages (we were both sober by the time we tried had sex, I made sure of that)
4. couldn't get out of my head that I was getting my friends "sloppy seconds" so to speak.
5. I had a "just friends" relationship with her beforehand.
If anyone could give me added advice, mainly how to keep this type of stuff from happening in the future, It would be greatly appreciated.