I was embarrassed and exposed to females during vasectomy preparations

I had vasectomy last year. I was taken to the procedure room. Where I was introduced to the female anesthesia tech and a female nurse. Then I male assistant Dr came in and said he was going to shave my groin for the surgery. I looked over at the ladies and expected them to leave. Did they leave? Nope they both just stood there no more than 6 feet away from me on the table. The dr doesn't tell them to leave. He lifts my gown exposing my flaccid penis to them and starts to shave me. The ladies just stand there pretending to talk but I can see them looking at my penis the entire time he shaves me. And because of him having to touch and move it to shave. And the fact to younger ladies are watching. I got a full erection by the time he was done. He then says while I'm still exposed and erect that the nurse will now clean and prep the area. He leaves and she comes over with the iodine cleanse and puts gloves on and starts rubbing it all over my scrotum, abdomen and even my penis. While doing certain spots she has to hold and move my erect penis back and forth to clean me everywhere. And the whole time the anesthesia girl is standing there watching. I was embarrassed enough that they saw me get shaved and get erect. But then to have the one watch while the nurse cleans me down there. And having her touch and hold my erection was the most embarrassing. I don't feel this was right at all. What do you all think?