hi i am wondering i have been fingered by my bf for the first time and after he took his hand out of my pants there was blood on his has does it mean i am not a virgin anymore i am bit scared and i told my mum and i am going to the doctors to see if i am still a virgin but i spoke to a sciencetest and she said it would of been a cutt
IT could have been tearing your hymen or it could have been from a scratch made by his fingernails or rough skin! It is very easy to tear the hymen! Many girls accidently do it while using a tampon! IF it has happened you can't change it! Hopefully it is just a scratch! You can find out by usin a magnifying mirror to see if the hymen is still intact or if there is a tear!
thank you for the tip i went to the doctor today he said the same thing but he was a guy so he is sending me on tuesday to the specialist so a girl can check it out i am wanting to know if been fingered can you lose your virginaty
and wat do you mean by tear i asked my mum if your hymens break that means you lost your virginaty does fingering brake it because i know that only a penis can break it and on my ex bf's hand there was blood but wen i went home here was nuthing on my underwear so i think its a scratch
and also by any chance are u a doctor or somthing and how do u know all this if i can trust on your words not beining rude or anything just confused %-)
Hi honey! I am NOT a doctor but am a parent of 2 teenagers, have counselled people for YEARS! I'm a healthcare advocate where I live1 I have studied health and people ALL my life! And for some reason seem to know a LOT about sexual activity, infections, pregnancy etc.! Sexual activity and pregnancy are VERY simple actually - BUT many young people and some older people are still confused about it and misunderstand what happens! Also listening to people that don't know what they are talking about! Check my other messages, I DO know what I'm talking about honey I promise! I wouldn't be on here if I didn't!
The expression "loosing your virginity" means different things to different people! In many cultures and religions the hymen being torn is a sign of lost virginity! In others it is the act of penetrating sex! He could have scratched your vagina or labia! And just liek the skin on your face the labia and vagina bleed VERY much with a small nick - as the veins are right under the skin!
The expression "loosing your virginity" means different things to different people! In many cultures and religions the hymen being torn is a sign of lost virginity! In others it is the act of penetrating sex! He could have scratched your vagina or labia! And just liek the skin on your face the labia and vagina bleed VERY much with a small nick - as the veins are right under the skin!