I recently last wednesday had sex with my girlfriend, ofcourse we used a condom but it busted.We had intercourse for not even 10 min then the next week she tells me she missed her period on friday. Im wondering how can that be if i did not cum......
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Mr. Guess
I wish to thank you for th euse of the condom, you will need to have fresh ones around, ones that have not been in the heat or are older the 2 months in your carring place.
Now there are a lot of reasons girls miss their periods, start late, or change the days, 1st is to keep the boys on their toes about her being pregnante.
You may have gotten some of your baby juices in her, and that can change her for a short time period!!! LOL no not her having a child, but your hormones can change her, she can be stressed over something, living with other girls? that changes all of theirs!!! miss counted days!!!
Wait it out for about 2 weeks, what ever a hp test says, and have her take that then.
Have her go to http://mymonthlycycles.com/home.jsp and sign up for free tracking of her periods,(and have her give your her passwords, so you can track it also) so this may not happen again.
Now there is a leason here, go with her to have her get on the birth control pill and another back up form of control, diapharm and jelly, (or some else) so there is no little guest running around next year.
So relax, throw out those bad condoms, get new ons, and enjoy..
RT
I wish to thank you for th euse of the condom, you will need to have fresh ones around, ones that have not been in the heat or are older the 2 months in your carring place.
Now there are a lot of reasons girls miss their periods, start late, or change the days, 1st is to keep the boys on their toes about her being pregnante.
You may have gotten some of your baby juices in her, and that can change her for a short time period!!! LOL no not her having a child, but your hormones can change her, she can be stressed over something, living with other girls? that changes all of theirs!!! miss counted days!!!
Wait it out for about 2 weeks, what ever a hp test says, and have her take that then.
Have her go to http://mymonthlycycles.com/home.jsp and sign up for free tracking of her periods,(and have her give your her passwords, so you can track it also) so this may not happen again.
Now there is a leason here, go with her to have her get on the birth control pill and another back up form of control, diapharm and jelly, (or some else) so there is no little guest running around next year.
So relax, throw out those bad condoms, get new ons, and enjoy..
RT
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There are several things going on here.
I hear your concern over the busted condom.
You're worried about a possible pregnancy.
And this stress is rocking your relationship.
First things first.
You did the right thing by using a condom. I'm not sure why it broke... a lack of lubrication? Perhaps it was old? Was it applied correctly? Did you withdrawl while holding it? Did you use petrolium or oil based lube by mistake?
Second, even though you say you did not even cum, there are sperm cells present in the urethra and in pre-cum and it only takes one. Now, some people will argue that if you haven't already come, that the odds of a sperm cell being left in the urethra or meatus (opening of the penis) is slight... but again, it only takes one.
From your note, it sounds like you were having intercourse for 10 minutes before the condom broke. Or perhaps you had intercourse for 10 minutes after it broke? It doesn't really make any difference. If you were thrusting or penetrating and aroused, you probably were making semen (mixing sperm and other lubricants) and experiencing pre-com through the glans and over the head of the penis as well. Any sperm in this would have been released into her vagina, if I understand your note.
If she were in the right part of her cycle when this happened, she MAY be pregnant.
There are other reasons why she might be late or missing her period.
These include, but are not limited to: Stress, variation in her monthly cycle, prior intercourse and pregnancy, and medicines.
Unfortunately, nature doesn't run a stop watch when we have sex, and Mother Nature doesn't care if it was 10 minutes or two seconds. If the egg and sperm have met, she could be pregnant.
I'd look for a home pregnancy test and read the instructions. I'd also consider getting a doctor's appointment for her within another week or so, if she still has had no period.
Plus, you might consider talking with a counselor face to face about how you're feeling and what your options are.
Good luck.
Let us know how it goes.
I hear your concern over the busted condom.
You're worried about a possible pregnancy.
And this stress is rocking your relationship.
First things first.
You did the right thing by using a condom. I'm not sure why it broke... a lack of lubrication? Perhaps it was old? Was it applied correctly? Did you withdrawl while holding it? Did you use petrolium or oil based lube by mistake?
Second, even though you say you did not even cum, there are sperm cells present in the urethra and in pre-cum and it only takes one. Now, some people will argue that if you haven't already come, that the odds of a sperm cell being left in the urethra or meatus (opening of the penis) is slight... but again, it only takes one.
From your note, it sounds like you were having intercourse for 10 minutes before the condom broke. Or perhaps you had intercourse for 10 minutes after it broke? It doesn't really make any difference. If you were thrusting or penetrating and aroused, you probably were making semen (mixing sperm and other lubricants) and experiencing pre-com through the glans and over the head of the penis as well. Any sperm in this would have been released into her vagina, if I understand your note.
If she were in the right part of her cycle when this happened, she MAY be pregnant.
There are other reasons why she might be late or missing her period.
These include, but are not limited to: Stress, variation in her monthly cycle, prior intercourse and pregnancy, and medicines.
Unfortunately, nature doesn't run a stop watch when we have sex, and Mother Nature doesn't care if it was 10 minutes or two seconds. If the egg and sperm have met, she could be pregnant.
I'd look for a home pregnancy test and read the instructions. I'd also consider getting a doctor's appointment for her within another week or so, if she still has had no period.
Plus, you might consider talking with a counselor face to face about how you're feeling and what your options are.
Good luck.
Let us know how it goes.
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