Im Pregnant But I don't Want to Be

I understand some of you can't have kids but why does her decision make a difference to you. There are tons of people who put their kids up for adoption and maybe that is just not the option for her. Even if you can't have a kid it doesn't mean that someone that can should have to have a kid for you.

So how is that working out for you now? lol

So why is this your second time now? I mean making a mistake once is one thing but this is your second time...I am pregnant and 27 years old and still scared to death! I can't even imagine being 14. I had only just started kissing boys at 14. What did you end up doing the last time? Whatever you do i hope you don't make this mistake again. You are a child and children should not be having sex let alone getting pregnant. I hope that you stop having sex until you are older and focus on school. Good luck to you whatever you do.

pl so-manly people need to have a baby they are gift from God and if ur mum aborted u, u wont have been living pl give that baby a life

you can give your baby to me

Hi, i am 22 years old and I have had both the experience of an abortion and raising a child. When i was 17 I got pregnant and I had an abortion. I was really attached to the pregnancy and I was really scared when I had the abortion, so it was very traumatic. At that time I wanted to keep the baby, but I was so scared of my family, my community and not being able to manage so I had the abortion. Three years later at the age of 20 I got pregnant again. This time i felt no real attachement to the baby and did not really have a desire to keep it. I decided to discuss it with my boyfriend and a few close people. Everyone discouraged me from having an abortion and given my past traumatic experience I kept the baby. The past two years have been the worst of my life. I was depressed, isolated, abused by my partner and family. I went through alot, and so did my son. As much as I love my son, if i were given the choice again I would have chosen abortion for the sake of us both. As for adoption it is not so easy to give up your child.

I am currently 6 weeks pregnant, and as I have no desire to go through what I went through the past two years. I am having an abortion

 

Ultimately what i am trying to tell whoever is reading this is to make sure that the decision is your own, because you are the one who is going to face the emotions and responsibilities. It is your life that is going to be impacted the most, so make it your decision. 

Have the baby give it to me,I take the baby off your hand

you do'nt love the guybut yet u made love wit himyou are so sick to the core, seeking others help for getting screweda little piece of advice for you : "Think before you act"for nowyou should get into adoption for sure

I did not want to be pregnant and I had an abortion. I do not regret my decision. It was the right one. An abortion is safer than having a baby. Plus I was not discriminated against because I was single and pregnant. If I gave it up for adoption everyone would have asked why. In this situation, no one ever knew. I do not regret my decision. I am alone. No one to help.

People make a big drama about it but having an abortion is not a big drama. Don't worry. After it's over it will be like it never happened. You can't count on men. They run away. You make 80percent what they do for the same job, so don't feel guilty about abortion.

I'd say have the kid; there's always people waiting on a list to addopt, I understand you don't love the guy but who says you won't love the kid? Since he/she will be half you. If you do have the kid once you look at him or her you'll know you made a good choice... And if for some reason you still don't want a kid give it up for adoption, he/she will live a happy life either way. And don't think just because you don't love the man whose kid it is that the right one won't come along, because he will and if he does truly love you the kid you already have he will except and love as his own. I know it must be scary to talk to your parents about it but just spit it out and the worst they can do is disown you and in that case you don't need that in your life. -Chelsea age18-no kids just advice/thoughts haha

Hi I'm sry you are in the position you are in. U need to get help from some one. If you want to give up for adoption I can help. You don't want to tell your family. You can stay with me until after. Sounds crazy I know. I'm 31 yes old and and two back outs for this before.

Did you have the baby?

You sound like me in ways but its more of im messing up my future because in three months im suppose to be leaving to go to college on a scholarship. Alot of people just dont want everyone to look down on them like me and its very hard to think of an abortion. I wish there was another alternative if it is early enough. I love the person its by but he have a child and he isnt ready for another and im planning on being in the military . I just cant take this right now . I doubt my parents are going to be proud.

You murdered ! I pray you find peace