Wow, finally a site that helps with the sexual eduction!
Can someone help me please, appreciated! Thank you!
Okay, heres my problem..
I and my Girlfriend, well i just lost my virginity with her last weekend..
I couldn't get it inside her, we had to use oil to fit it inside her, yes i made her all feeling hot and bothered, i even fitted 4 fingers in her vagina before hand..
So it came to a part before the oil, where she told me to make her wet.
I'm so unexperienced, i'm 20 yrs of age too.. but i was waiting for the right one after, 4 girlfriends in all my life, i chosen she was the one i wanted to lose my virginity too, i felt something close between us both..
So back to the point, i came down to her.. and i didn't know what part i was supposed to be doing here, funny thing is, i seem to get her going when fingering her fine but i didn't know what i was doing next to her vagina, i was licking the edge of her vagina yet it didn't do anything so yeah. she told me to come back to her, then i asked her to make me wet.. i didn't know what other term to say and she just licked once and got back up.. she told me she never really gave a guy a bj before cause it was something she only wanted to do to the one she truely wants to spend her whole life with. myself, i've never licked/ate a women's vagina before so i didn't know where to start.
When it was down to intercourse, i was inside her for 2 mins then i came, i thought i couldn't go on after i came.. so i feel i messed up on our first time with sex, i mean, she didn't even come, but i came so fast when inside her.. I feel a lowsy boyfriend, but i wanted to wait for the right one, did i do a mistake doing that, since now i have no sexual experience what so ever?
Gratitude to those who will help.
Can someone help me please, appreciated! Thank you!
Okay, heres my problem..
I and my Girlfriend, well i just lost my virginity with her last weekend..
I couldn't get it inside her, we had to use oil to fit it inside her, yes i made her all feeling hot and bothered, i even fitted 4 fingers in her vagina before hand..
So it came to a part before the oil, where she told me to make her wet.
I'm so unexperienced, i'm 20 yrs of age too.. but i was waiting for the right one after, 4 girlfriends in all my life, i chosen she was the one i wanted to lose my virginity too, i felt something close between us both..
So back to the point, i came down to her.. and i didn't know what part i was supposed to be doing here, funny thing is, i seem to get her going when fingering her fine but i didn't know what i was doing next to her vagina, i was licking the edge of her vagina yet it didn't do anything so yeah. she told me to come back to her, then i asked her to make me wet.. i didn't know what other term to say and she just licked once and got back up.. she told me she never really gave a guy a bj before cause it was something she only wanted to do to the one she truely wants to spend her whole life with. myself, i've never licked/ate a women's vagina before so i didn't know where to start.
When it was down to intercourse, i was inside her for 2 mins then i came, i thought i couldn't go on after i came.. so i feel i messed up on our first time with sex, i mean, she didn't even come, but i came so fast when inside her.. I feel a lowsy boyfriend, but i wanted to wait for the right one, did i do a mistake doing that, since now i have no sexual experience what so ever?
Gratitude to those who will help.
well im not sure about the rest, but a girl wrote down instructions on how to eat someone out and i thought it might help so here it is:
"when a girl spreads her legs for a guy or girl. as the giver, you should then gently tease the girl with your tounge and fingers by tracing all over the inside of her thighs and near and around her p***y. then place your mouth atop the girls sweet p***y lips and spread them with your tounge. placing your mouth over the opening to her c**t, kiss her like you would on her mouth and gently push your tounge down into her sweet, wet c**t. continue to tounge f**k her until she bucks up towards you from pleasure. gently pull your tounge out and lick around but not on her clit. get your fingers wet from her p***y and gently rub the top of her clit until its erect and hard. slide your tounge over the top of her clit and all around until she moans. make your mouth into the shape of an "O" overtop of her clit and suck on it while f*****g her in her c**t with your fingers or a vibrator/dildo/long hard object until she cums. if your using a dildo on her, f**k her with it with one hand and reach up and rub her nipples and tits with the other one. boys especially should make note of this eating out process- try it on a girl. its alot f*****g better than what guys usually do, which is just licking her until the guy gets bored. this is why alot of girls expirement with other girls...girls know the female body and know what to do to get each other off."
"when a girl spreads her legs for a guy or girl. as the giver, you should then gently tease the girl with your tounge and fingers by tracing all over the inside of her thighs and near and around her p***y. then place your mouth atop the girls sweet p***y lips and spread them with your tounge. placing your mouth over the opening to her c**t, kiss her like you would on her mouth and gently push your tounge down into her sweet, wet c**t. continue to tounge f**k her until she bucks up towards you from pleasure. gently pull your tounge out and lick around but not on her clit. get your fingers wet from her p***y and gently rub the top of her clit until its erect and hard. slide your tounge over the top of her clit and all around until she moans. make your mouth into the shape of an "O" overtop of her clit and suck on it while f*****g her in her c**t with your fingers or a vibrator/dildo/long hard object until she cums. if your using a dildo on her, f**k her with it with one hand and reach up and rub her nipples and tits with the other one. boys especially should make note of this eating out process- try it on a girl. its alot f*****g better than what guys usually do, which is just licking her until the guy gets bored. this is why alot of girls expirement with other girls...girls know the female body and know what to do to get each other off."
right, well, when it comes to giving your girlfriend oral, it all depends on what she likes. First of all, you both have to be in the mood, foreplay is a wonderful thing. with a vagina, there are many things you can do, the outer lips (labia majora) are sensitive and are good to rub and lick. Stimulating the clitoris is something that most girls like because it's so sensitive. Licking it, rubbing it, sucking it or humming while sucking on it can make girls really wet. besides that, just explore with your tongue and fingers, and take everything slowly. With her giving you a blowjob, again, exploration is a good start. Before sex, you should both be able to masterbate infront of each other comfortably.
Now. Premeture ejaculation can be a serious problem. So, either see a docter about it, masterbate before sex, that usually makes you last longer (if you can keep it up). Remember to practice safe sex and cleanliness, hygiene is a major things when it comes to sex and things of the sort.
So, the best thing to do is take things slow and explore each others bodies. ;-) A good way to start off is give her a Full body massage. Massage her body softly, caress her thighs just to tease her a bit. Sensual acts can get you both in the mood quite fast.
Have Fun!
Now. Premeture ejaculation can be a serious problem. So, either see a docter about it, masterbate before sex, that usually makes you last longer (if you can keep it up). Remember to practice safe sex and cleanliness, hygiene is a major things when it comes to sex and things of the sort.
So, the best thing to do is take things slow and explore each others bodies. ;-) A good way to start off is give her a Full body massage. Massage her body softly, caress her thighs just to tease her a bit. Sensual acts can get you both in the mood quite fast.
Have Fun!