hi friends,
please help me with this. my long time living boyfriend does few things which really annoys me and he ends up blaming me for not being nice. he often comes off (ejacultaes) on floor, dirty clothes in laundry basket, in pants etc etc and leaves the mess for me to clean. if i show any kind of anger he feels ofended and fires me back and shows tantrums and would not speak to me for months. he would be happy only if i quietly clean it up without saying anything. and he does all this after watching porn. please please tell me if i am unreasonable in getting irritated by this. help needed as it has become a huge issue and has happened 100's of time.....help please !!!!
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for one where he ejaculates id just unsanitary and nasty and me personaly do not think that he should make u clean it up. the way he is acting is childish and no i dont think u should have to take that. and the fact that he wont speak to u for months is terrible. say of yall decide to get married and this continues what will u do if he decides to get mad and not speak to u. idk yalls intire relationship situation but from that little bit hunny i think u would deserve better. that just doesnt sound right to me
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He doesn't speak with you for months?!?! Than what is the point of this relationship, besides you being his cleaning maid? I don't mean to be rude, but - why do you tolerate such behavior?
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He's a jerk. Unless you want to live like that forever, dump him and find a real man.
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thanks so much for replying. its just that i feel very insecure and always felt that i should give in for all. and he also made me feel that i was wrong ....... i believed him seriously and felt terrible. so i finally thought i should ask someone who can give impartial advice. thank you so much i really appreciate
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thanks for the reply, wish i could take the strong step on dumping him but now i know i am not wrong. will try and be more assertive now. thank you
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hmmmm i tolerate him ..... coz of my own silly insecurities, but thanks all the responses does make me feel better as now i know i am not wrong. thaks
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