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im 15 and i just had a baby about 6 weeks ago im desprit for sex but my bf dosnt want to because he is scard he migh hurt me or something long storie but is it safe to finger myself after i had my baby
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If it was a vaginal delivery, did you have any tearing or did they have to cut you? If so you need to wait for that to heal. If not, I don't see any reason to wait. My wife and I resumed sex as soon as she came home. I was just careful at first to see if it was going to hurt her at all.

What do you mean by "fingering"? If you are going to insert a finger or two or however many you usually use just be careful because fingers are rougher than a penis. If you mean rubbing your clit I don't see how that would be a problem.

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yes it was a verginal delivery no it didnt tear n they didnt have to cut me okaie i want to have sex with my bf i havent had sex with him for 9 months pluse 6 weeks i asked him and he said he would rather wait a while because he dosnt want to hurt mee or any thing but it dosnt look like i would hurt me im just not sure because i had a baby come out of there and would like haveing sex damage my vergina ?
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My wife and I did NOT stop having sex while she was pregnant and we resumed as soon as she came home after the second baby. They did cut her after she began to tear while having the first one and she had to go back for some more repair work later so we had to stop for a few days while she was healing. We asked her doc about it both times and he said to just take it easy, and if it hurts --- STOP.

She asked him about sex before the delivery, specifically when should we stop, and he said there is no reason to stop but when it's getting close to the time, don't go slamming it in too hard, if I had a BIG one. That certainly was not the case and we had no problems.

 

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well no there's nothing to worry about.
unless u had a tearing or something.
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