I am 15 and have tried masturbating a few times, but it is extremely painful and i fear that my vagina is too small for when i am ready to have sexual intercourse.
Is there something wrong with me? Are there any ways to 'loosen' myself?
Is there something wrong with me? Are there any ways to 'loosen' myself?
How many fingers are you using when you masturbate? Try using just one, if you are currently trying with more. If that works and you feel comfortable with it, then add a finger, and so on. That might be one way to do it.
Also, for self pleasure, try experimenting with your clitoris, rather than literally putting fingers inside.
Also, for self pleasure, try experimenting with your clitoris, rather than literally putting fingers inside.
when the time comes for you to have sex your vagina will open up and relax so it wont hurt so bad when the penis slides in. it probably will for a few seconds, but your body will know whats going on and give in. just make sure he enters you slow and easy for the first minute to give you vagina a few seconds to adjust.
Masturbation for me when i first tried it wasnt so much as the inside feeling good, it was just my clit. i used a little bullet vibrator and laid on my stomach and slipped it underneath to my clit. just try clitoral stimulation first and see if you like that better.
believe me, there is nothing wrong with your small vagina. that is going to make someone very happy one day :$
Masturbation for me when i first tried it wasnt so much as the inside feeling good, it was just my clit. i used a little bullet vibrator and laid on my stomach and slipped it underneath to my clit. just try clitoral stimulation first and see if you like that better.
believe me, there is nothing wrong with your small vagina. that is going to make someone very happy one day :$
Actually, there is such thing as having too tight of a vagina. I got my period when I was 13 and used pads, when I got a little older I tried to use tampons, but it hurt too much and I could not even get them in. I went to a gyno and they tried to give me an exam, but I started crying the second the specula barely touched me. The dr then stuck only the q-tip inside me and even that hurt. When I was 20 years old, my doctor had me get a hymenectomy, where I went in for surgery and he cut my hymen, he later told me that mine was thicker than normal and I would never had been able to have sex without the procedure, or tearing myself so bad I could have internally bled. I suggest you make an appointment with your gyno and tell them if tampons hurt, and you might are too scared to have sex. Now, I am fine, 22 years old in a serious relationship. The first time I had sex it hurt a little, like normal, but it was nothing compared to what it would have been without the procedure.