I'm 15 I have been masturbating every once and a while for about a year. I would masturbate a lot but i can't seem to make it feel good. It doesn't hurt or anything but I can't get it to feel good like everybody talks about. I tried fingering, rubbing, humping, playing with myself and I don't have a shower head that you can take off but nothing gets me wet. I have no way to get a vibrator or dildo or anything. I refuse to have sex too, I think i'm too young. I have been reading a lot online and I can't find anything that I haven't tried. Is there anything I can do to make it feel good?:$%-)
I need some more information
- "I would masturbate a lot"
- how much? how often?
- Why a lot?
- "i can't seem to make it feel good"
- So how exactly do you do it ("fingering, rubbing, humping, playing with myself" is a bit vague)?
- Why do you do it if you "can't seem to make it feel good"?
- "I can't get it to feel good like everybody talks about"
- What is that then? What do you think "everybody" says?
- "I refuse to have sex too, I think i'm too young"That's good - you are. Value your virginity.
- "I have been reading a lot online and I can't find anything that I haven't tried"
- So what have you tried?
- When did you start having periods?
- Why did you start masturbating?
- Are there any cultural or religious implications?
It may be that your feelings are still developing. Maybe it's your technique (that's why I asked questions). Perhaps you are not relaxed enough. Many women don't orgasm until they are much older - some in their 30's; some much older. So don't despair. Also don't believe everything you read on the internet. I'll try and help.