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Hey guys. I'm really nervous and was looking for some imput from others who have had similar experiences. I'm 21 and in college. Young, yes I know.. so, baby isn't exactly in my plan right now although I do feel bad saying that, since I know so many women would love to be thinking they were pregnant right now. Anyway, here's my story..

 My boyfriend of a year and I recently started having sex (he is my first, and I have a feeling he will be the man I marry). He is really sweet and stops whenever I feel anxious or anything like that. We are always really safe. He uses a spermicidal trojan condom every single time and always pulls out before he ejaculates. He did have a long-term girlfriend before me and has experience with condoms, and in such is knowledgable about proper use and what-not.

This being said, I know even with proper use, they are not 100% effective. I was on the pill for a while before he and I started being active, but was forced to stop because I was developing fibroadenomas and have a strong family history of breast cancer. My doctor wanted to be safe rather than sorry.

My last cycle started Jan 18th, and lasted roughly 6 days. I generally am on about a 28 day cycle, although I was not regular before starting the pill so I cannot be positive. On tuesday, I started 'spotting'- a tiny bit of pink and brown. I put a liner on, expecting my period. That was, however, all of it for the day. Wednesday through today (Saturday) I have had about 2 or 3 drops of bright red and brown spotting once a day. I always wear a pad, hoping it will develop, but it never does. It is no longer tiny and pink, but looks like a regular period drop. I am also having minor pelvic cramps, much like when I ovulate or get my period. I am not having breast tenderness or changes in appetite, etc.

He is going to go out and buy me a test tomorrow, for me to take monday morning (I am away for the weekend). So for right now, he and I are nervous as hell and just want me to get my period. He also knows that I don't plan on having sex again for a while.. Potentially until I'm married. At least I'm lucky that he's sticking by me in that decision.. I wish this wasn't happening, though. Any imput would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

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Just to add.. My periods are usually very heavy. They may start out slow, but get to be bad for 2 or 3 days before slowing down again. Generally, they are about 6 days (one slow, 2-3 bad, 2-3 slow again). Thanks!

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Hey did you end up being pregnant or noo??
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