is what he did to me rape and now prego ?

Guest over a year ago

Hi i am new to this hole thing .. but about 3 nights ago i had my boyfriend sleep over because my perents werent home im 15 and he is 17 any way he slept over i new we wouldnt do any thing majour i was a vergin but during the night we were just pashing and then he started rubbing me and i got into the mood and well you know what i mean and yh he ende up fingering me ( i'v been fingerd be4) and then he ttok my shirt of and then next miniet he pulled his penis out and tryed to put it in m i told him to stop but he kept saying it will be the best time of your life and every thing so i kinda went along with this it was my first time actully haveing sex and then he started to go harder i didnt like it i told him to stop but he had me pinned down and i was crying but he thought that i ment he loved it but when we fell asleep he read a messege i got from my parents saying they wont be home for a nothr 2 days so the nxtt day i was very pissed of at him and he was getting angrey and said he dosnt like my little mood swings and that he is gong to make me feel better by staying with me till my parrents got home any way yesterday he grabed me nd forxced me into sex he pulled down my pants and put his pinies inside of me and whent really hard again and his sperm went all in me he did not wi[e it away he tied my hands to the bed and made it like role -play :/ but i was so sceard i screamd and he saids seee know your getting into it and i couldnt talk and tehn today he did it all again but his sperm went alll inside me and over my boob i got my im late for my period and i woke up feeling sore and sick i have broses all over me from him and my vergina is really sore and i took a test today and it came back positive i cant tell my perants or any one i told him and he got really angry but said he wil be there for m but idk becauuse was it wrong what he did to me please some one tell me what to do please

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cthulu over a year ago

it was not right of him to do that to you since it was against your will.

you are a unique human and have the right to think and feel freely - keep that in mind. you will surely find out that it was wrong what he has done. he is not supposed to pressure you in any way.

concerning that and your pregnancy you should talk to your parents right away. make your situation very clear so they understand your perspective well. tell them them that they should listen to you until youve finished. they are your parents and should always love you no matter what and even though they might be shocked about it they will understand if you explain yourself well.

dont make it a big drama or freak out, stay calm and everything will be okay

best regards

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mommyto5226971 over a year ago

I have never heard of anyone having sex for the first time and finding out 3 days later they were pregnant. Something isn't right about your story

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mommyto5226971 over a year ago

It's actually not even possible for it to show up that soon. It takes the fertilized egg a few days to travel where it needs to be.

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cuties are us223795 over a year ago

can i actully say it is possiblabe because it has happend to 3 of my friends and they ar all teen mums idk how but it is possibale and hun you need to stay away from this boy and talk to your parents best of luck

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estwrhwg over a year ago

.Unfortunately this is a very sensitive case cause this is the result when two kids play with adults goodies. My first question to you is if you feel this is rape why do you sleep another knight with him and why do you simply go to report it to the police. You let him play with you and you also let he finger you this is enough to drive every single man to do what he want, although you said to him that he must stop this is not possible for any man to stop specially not a youngster. So my answer to you is no this is not Rape because you put him in this situation. I don't hope that you are pregnant because this will be the result of a disaster to start your life. If so you have to discus this situation with your parents i hope other young people read this so that they can learn a lesson out of it.

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mommyto5226971 over a year ago

Ok you must be a either a young girl or just stupid. You cannot find out you are pregnant from a home pregnancy test the day after you have sex.

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medic-dan109453 over a year ago

Hi Guest,

I'll be blunt. You were raped. Go to the police or someone you trust - NOW. This is an act of POWER not one of love. He FORCED himself on you after you said to stop.

Now the problems:

No test will tell you if you are pregnant 3 days after having sex. It is impossible. For one thing, even if you were to get pregnant the egg has likely not implanted yet. If you are testing positive, it is either false (very rare) or you were pregnant prior to this. At best you can test 2 weeks after having sex and MAY get a positive.

Also, having sex 3 days before your period it would be highly unlikely that you would get pregnant. The egg is only viable for a short period of time after ovulation. In many cases it is safe to have sex beginning about a week to 10 days before your period starts. You reach your lowest fertility when your period starts.

Start by going to the police and reporting the crime.

Good luck.

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2917249190 over a year ago

I don't think (because of the timeline) that you are pregnant. I do think you should talk to your parents. But most importantly, and whether your parents agree or not, call the police. You have a right to say no, anytime. Wht he did was violent rape. Rape is not about sex. Rape is about power and controll.

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cam716257617 over a year ago

All you little kids are foolish, first its not possible. Because it takes once again 19 days you hear me 19 days after ovulation for your hormone levels to be even high enough, that it usually three to five days after your missed period. But here's a but she had sex three days prior to her period she's not pregnant cause you ovulate 14 days before you're period what did you ppl learn in reproductive science? . Bottom line no one deserves to get RAPED . I'm sorry but you telling me you had your bf over when your parents were away against their knowledge you wouldn't think this bf of yours wasn't expecting sex? It seems like now a days a lot if ppl only do this to themselves. It's like the boy who cried wolf, accuse this young man of rape and mess up his whole life when there is a potential you lead this boy on bottom line.

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odam22261821 over a year ago

by the way cam716 get over yourself if this has happened to this girl she wants help she doesn’t want to be abused and know how u said that rape is only about sex i is not it is about someone forcing someone to do a sexual deeds against his or her free will such as hand jobs or sucking out and no they are not classified as sex so maybe you need to go back to school also if your mother tort you treat and speak to other people like u want to be treated your self

and gest that wrote this if u want to talk i have a friend that is a sexual psychiatrist so if u message me i can get some tips to tell you

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Guest over a year ago

dude she is looking for help get over your self cam716 -_________________-

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odam22261821 over a year ago

thats what i think tayshaxo atleast there is only one mean person on this post

cam716 this site is fore helping people not about abusing them you are probly someone that cant get in a relashonship and have no frends so you have fun by putting people down if you dont have somthing nice to say f*** off

and guesti am just wondering if you got prego or not

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Donald over a year ago

It is too bad you have np one to talk to.......No, wate.......There is, you talk to the police! They want to talk to YOU! YES! It was RAPE! And it sounds like your, "BOYFRIEND" is the type that has done what he did to, and WILL do it AGAIN to some OTHER girl!!! YOU did NOTHING to derserve the treatment he gave you. Do not try to fool yourself on that!

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Guest over a year ago

First, yes, what he did to you is classified as rape. There is no other way of putting it. I would recommend going to the police but if you're not comfortable doing that at least seek counseling.

Second, it is possible that due to your age you received a false positive, however you need to discuss this with your parents and seek medical attention. It is possible to get internal injuries from rape that could cause a miscarriage if you decide to carry to term if you are in fact pregnant. The pregnancy test that a doctor uses is far more accurate. Also this boy could have given you any nuber of STDs so get yourself tested.

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