I just wanted to have some opinions about this---> I was raped when I was little and this went on for about 6 years! It was someone I was close to and now I do not trust guys! Well I do after a LONG time of getting to know them! Does me not trusting guys because of one bad experience make me a bad person? Or am I just paranoid?
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Many people who have been sexually abused, especially by someone close to them find it hard to trust people. It doens't make you a bad person or paranoid. I would suggest getting some councilling, it might help you to be able to better form trusting relationships
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To begin with your rape is not a bad expirience it's an awfull experience, and second of course you are not paranoid, i meen who can blame you for not trusting guys after what you 've been through. i hope i helped you
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Bakura
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Bakura
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Of course you're NOT a bad person! The person who did this to you is the bad person! How dare he! It is completely normal for you to have trust issues with males. I feel so bad for you. You will heal though. When you meet the right guy that you can trust and hopefully marry, you will start to feel better and trust males a little more, although you may always feel a little weary about other males. This is normal. What the person did to you when you were younger is horrible. Their fault, not at all yours!
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of course ur not a bad person u just need to understand not every guy is going 2 b like the man that hert u when u were young. dont let him rouin the rest of ur life. u will know when a guy is right 4 u. xx
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I was raped by my cousin, he would take me to building sites to 'learn sex education' he would make me give him blow jobs and he would cum on me all the time. One time, when we were older, we started to like eachother in a sexual way and we had consentual sex but after that he thought I liked being ' raped' he told me NEVER to go to the police otherwise he would make me pregnant! I don't know what to do! It was years ago but I still get night mares!!
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I think if its still worrying u and if he is threatening u you should consider reporting it or at least seeking some help
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I think if its still worrying u and if he is threatening u you should consider reporting it or at least seeking some help from maybe a GP or counsellor
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