life feels not real

please answer!

i m going to marry a girl n i think that shes not a virgin please tell me how could i find that shes not a virgin either by walking style or body language or just anything please tell me

HELP ME!

lets try dis first try and find out what made u smoke,if its either 4 de fun of it or u bothered about smetin dats reli freaking u out

Yo ho Guest,

Depending on where you are, Black Mamba is now illegal- it was temporarily banned in April of this year in the UK, with a view to being permenantly banned. The problem with legal highs is that- just like illegal highs- they're unregulated and untested. The only reason they are legal is because of a loop-hole in the law, allowing them to be sold. Just because they're legal- doesn't make them safe.

And tripping off of weed? are you sure?

You haven't said how old you are, but I'm guessing quite young. Every time I come on this forum, there are young people having panic & anxiety attacks because they've had a couple of tokes of weed. I don't know whether to find it ridiculous or assume that everyone having these attacks is smoking something else with their weed! I'm sure it wasn't this bad in my day, when me & my mates were toking!

What's wrong with you- I'm guessing you don't take well to getting stoned! In other words, instead of chilling you out- it's made you anxious. This isn't uncommon (especially on this forum) and you've got a choice (a) smoke again & risk having another bad panic attack or (b) don't smoke again & let whatever is going on now, fade.

My advice would be- don't smoke again. It obviously doesn't suit you. But the more you dwell on what's wrong with you, the more anxious you will become. If you are really worried about how this has affected your life, go and see your doctor or speak to a counsellor at school/college/work.

Good luck

V

Dear Alex

What has this to do with this specific post, or cannabis addiction generally?

1. You cannot tell whether she is a virgin by inspection or observation.


2. Certainly walking style and body language cannot provide an answer. What did you have in mind?


3. But you can find out by asking her. Then trust her answer

You are marrying her, so what has raised the issue now? Why do you think she's not a virgin?